I used to think I was just "bad with money." After my divorce at 23, I walked away from everything and gave my ex-husband all my savings out of guilt, stepping into a money story defined by debt, scarcity, and shame. But now I understand that my problem wasn't a lack of financial literacy—it was financial trauma, and if you've ever felt a tightness in your chest when checking your bank account, or felt anxiety even though you have "enough" on paper, this episode explores how your relationship with money is often actually about safety, identity, and your nervous system trying to protect you.

Rahkim Sabree is a financial therapist, Accredited Financial Counselor (AFC®), Trauma of Money Certified Practitioner, TEDx Speaker, and the author of Overcoming Financial Trauma. He has worked with individuals, corporate teams, HR professionals, and financial advisors, and brings deep insight into bridging the gap between financial literacy and trauma-informed care.

► Why financial advice often feels incomplete, and the difference between financial therapy and financial planning.

► Why you're not "bad with money"—and why your perceived "bad decisions" are actually normal nervous system responses to abnormal circumstances.

► How fight, flight, freeze, and fawn show up in your daily money behaviors, from overworking to actively avoiding your bank account.

► The ways jobs, hustle culture, and entrepreneurial ventures can reinforce financial trauma.

► What it sounds like to actually set financial boundaries, talk about money more honestly, and find healing in community rather than isolation.

00:00 Introduction to Financial Therapy

05:05 Understanding Financial Trauma

06:57 The Human Aspect of Money

09:28 Defining Financial Trauma

11:43 The Impact of Wealth on Trauma

13:30 Navigating Financial Systems

14:47 Personal Stories and Financial Decisions

17:14 The Concept of Financial Literacy

20:02 Responses to Financial Threats

22:52 Flight, Fight, Freeze, and Fawn in Financial Contexts

27:30 The Impact of Fawning in Relationships

29:46 Economic Warfare and Workplace Trauma

31:31 The Misconceptions of Entrepreneurship

33:31 Financial Boundaries and Relationships

36:53 Community and Financial Healing

46:34 Shifting Perspectives on Financial Trauma

Learn more about Rahkim Sabree

►Instagram: @rahkimsabree
►Website: Overcomingfinancialtrauma.com
►Substack: Rahkimsabree.substack.com

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Original Music produced by Dalton Grant

When life gets overwhelmingly "lifey," your nervous system might be sending you signals of perceived danger and threat. This episode explores the power of pausing to track the physical sensations happening in your body and offers a simple path to reconnect with the quiet, peaceful trust inside you.

Jay Moon Fields is a coach and educator specializing in nervous system regulation and somatic awareness. She has worked extensively with successful professionals (who are also just ordinary people) to help them realign with their essential selves by first meeting themself at the physiological level.

In this episode, Jay discusses:

► How to reconnect to trust when everything feels uncertain and you are consumed by fear

► The specific imagery that brings her back to a sense of calm every damn time

► How to track your nervous system in real time by paying attention to bodily sensations

► The distinct patterns of thoughts, physical sensations, and behaviors associated with the fight, flight, freeze, and fawn stress responses

►A moment to reconnect with a sense of okness in your body

► Why the world desperately needs more regulated nervous systems right now and how you can be a part of it

Learn more about Jay's Programs

► Website: https://jaymoonfields.com

► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heywaitwithjay/

► Books: https://www.amazon.com/less-lost-finding-yourself-ordinary/dp/B0FSDSG63B

► Coaching: https://jaymoonfields.com/coaching

► LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaymoonfields/

Have a question for the podcast?

Credits

This podcast was produced by Viv – First Click VA.
For podcast support, contact: viv@firstclickva.com

For collaborations or general inquiries, contact: hello@jaymoonfields.com

Original Music produced by Dalton Grant

You have pyrobably heard it your whole life: "You're too sensitive." If you feel things deeply, get overwhelmed easily, and notice every detail of everything, you might be wondering why you process the world with such extraordinary depth. Today we explore what it actually means to be a Highl Sensitive Person (HSP) and why it is a neurophysiological trait rather than a stress response.

Muriel Kosovsky is a business owner and coach who has worked internationally for over two decades as a teacher, senior leader, and mentor to support highly sensitive leaders and contributors navigating the workplace. She's the author of the forthcoming book, HSPedia, a comprehensive blueprint for highly sensitive people.

► The four levels of sensitivity that can be activated in highly sensitive people

► Why many HSPs struggle at work—and the kinds of support that actually help

► The non-negotiable qualities HSPs need for relationships to be sustainable and healthy

► The surprising variant of HSP that craves intensity, adventure, and even danger

► The one quality successful HSPs tend to organize their lives around

If you loved this episode, please help get it to others by subscribing, rating the show, or sharing it with a friend! You can learn more about how to support Jay's work and the show at https://buymeacoffee.com/jaymoonfields

► Website: https://jaymoonfields.com
► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heywaitwithjay/
► Books: https://www.amazon.com/less-lost-finding-yourself-ordinary/dp/B0FSDSG63B
► Coaching Program: https://jaymoonfields.com/coaching
► LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaymoonfields/

Have a question for the podcast? Send it in — it may be featured in a future episode.

This podcast was produced by Viv – First Click VA.
For podcast support, contact: viv@firstclickva.com
For collaborations or general inquiries, contact: hello@jaymoonfields.com

Original Music produced by Dalton Grant