You’re the one people rely on.

You show up. You help. You say yes.

But at what cost?

In this Mojo Monday episode, Carly explores what can happen when being the “helper” starts to take a toll and why always saying yes isn’t as straightforward as it seems.

Because every yes has a cost… even if you can’t see it straight away.

If you’ve ever felt stretched, drained, or quietly overwhelmed while still showing up for everyone else, this one could be for you.

Carly is a counsellor and coach who specialises in building psychological hardiness — the ability to navigate challenge, stay engaged, and take action under pressure. Her work integrates modern psychology with Japanese approaches like Morita Therapy, focusing on helping people live meaningful lives without needing to control their thoughts or emotions.

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Most people give up at the first sign of pain. Aaron Hale’s story is a different kind of race—one where he’s faced unimaginable trauma and keeps running anyway. A combat veteran turned inspiring endurance athlete, he’s become the first blind and deaf person to complete an ultra-marathon—the infamous Badwater 135—and climbed mountains no one thought possible after losing nearly all his senses in a bomb blast.

Aaron shares the brutal details of surviving an IED explosion in Afghanistan, losing his sight, hearing, and sense of balance, and then rewriting what it means to be unstoppable. He reflects on the mindset shifts that transformed pure survival into a purpose-driven pursuit of challenge, proving that pain can forge strength rather than break it. Discover how cognitive biases like fading effect and peak-end rule shape our resilience, and why the key to facing adversity is all in perspective.

Key Takeaways

• Adversity can be a catalyst for growth and purpose.
• Perspective shifts are crucial in overcoming challenges.
• Sharing stories of scars can foster connection and healing.
• Consistent movement and challenge build mental and physical resilience.
• Neuroplasticity allows the brain to grow stronger through hard experiences.

05:06 The Bomb Blast: A Life-Changing Incident

11:53 The Aftermath: Injuries and Recovery

17:52 Facing Blindness: A New Reality

23:59 The Turning Point: Finding Purpose

28:03 Reinventing Life: The Podcast Journey

29:18 The Power of Sharing Scars

30:21 From Adversity to Entrepreneurship

32:42 The Journey of Resilience

34:48 Embracing New Challenges

37:50 Cognitive Dissonance and Internal Drive

40:24 Nature vs. Nurture in Resilience

42:18 Facing Demons in Ultra Marathons

48:03 Walking to the Edge of Yourself

50:21 Perspective in Overcoming Hardship

Resources

https://www.pointofimpactpod.com/

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