In this episode Dr. Rosy Boa discusses regression in pole dancing—plateaus, losing tricks, and fluctuating capacity—as a normal outcome of changing life circumstances like stress, finances, injury, caregiving, and disability, including impacts from COVID. She argues pole should not be prioritized over basic needs and warns against tying self-worth to specific tricks, which can create shame and identity crises when abilities change. As a coaching approach, she recommends building the skill of “noticing”: tuning into proprioception and interoception, identifying what feels physically pleasurable, and cultivating aesthetic appreciation beyond technical perfection. She suggests practicing by watching peer-level dancers and identifying non-technical qualities (expression, musicality, lines, novelty) to develop a softer lens that can be turned inward, supporting motivation, enjoyment, and longevity in pole.

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Chapters:

00:00 Welcome and Setup

00:53 Why We Regress

01:29 Life Shifts and Capacity

03:30 Losing Tricks Is Normal

04:41 Identity Beyond Tricks

06:44 Noticing What Feels Good

09:14 Intrinsic Motivation in Practice

11:39 Appreciating Others Differently

13:47 Exercise to Train Your Eye

16:55 Beauty in Every Stage

20:10 Softness and Self Kindness
20:39 Wrap Up and Shout Outs