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The Uncommon Communicator

The Uncommon Communicator

By: James Gable Brandon Thompson
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The Uncommon communicator is the individual that has the enlightenment, to recognize in any situation, whether or not communication has occurred. This uncommon communicator takes ownership of the conversation and possess the skills to navigate and facilitate the conversation to mutual understanding. A communications major and a construction superintendent take on the common communication problems of our times. Taking on the experts as well as the Sophist of old to help bring clarity to the lost art of true communications.© 2023 The Uncommon Communicator Personal Development Personal Success
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  • Great Speaking Starts When You Stop Making It About You
    Apr 13 2026

    Your message can be brilliant and still miss the room. That’s the tension we dig into with Bob Hooey, a longtime Toastmaster, international professional speaker, and the guy clients nicknamed “The Idea Man.” We talk about what actually changes when you present across cultures, why a joke that kills at home can die overseas, and how doing a little research on local norms, references, and audience expectations can save you from dead silence.

    We also get practical about audience-first communication and public speaking skills. Bob shares how he preps by talking with real attendees before he ever steps on stage, how a service mindset makes you calmer and more effective, and why “talking with people” beats “talking to people” every time. Along the way, we swap coaching stories about frozen moments, breathing, slowing down, and helping people perform under pressure, plus leadership lessons from asking better questions instead of always being the fixer.

    Then we go into speaker branding, handling feedback without spiraling, and the business side of communication: creating books, training, and programs that extend your value beyond a single talk. Bob also previews “Skills Pay,” a project focused on turning Toastmasters and presentation skills into real-world opportunities. If you want stronger leadership communication, better audience connection, and smarter preparation, you’ll get plenty to steal here. Subscribe, share this with a friend who presents for work, and leave a review so more people can find the show.

    You can contact Bob through LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/canadianideamanbobhooey/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ideamanbob


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    47 mins
  • E117 - Gauri Seshadri Leadership and Confidence
    Mar 30 2026

    You can be great at your job and still get overlooked for one brutal reason: you don’t say the thing you’re thinking. I sit down with Gauri Seshadri, First Vice President of Toastmasters International, to talk about the hidden cost of hesitation and how practicing communication in a safe, structured environment changes the way you show up at work, in leadership, and in everyday conversations. Gauri shares a personal path from engineering and client calls to global volunteer leadership, and what it really takes to commit to roles that demand influence, clarity, and courage.

    We also go deep on the new reality of workplace communication: it’s less about “communication skills” in general and more about cross-cultural communication across contexts. Direct vs indirect styles, time zones, expectations, and unspoken norms can turn a clear message into a misunderstanding fast. Add four generations in the same organization, and leaders have to learn a new playbook for motivating people, explaining the why, and supporting work-life balance and healthy rhythms without losing performance.

    Along the way, we dig into perfectionism, imposter feelings, and the moment when “my voice matters” stops being a quote and becomes a responsibility. Gauri explains how to take action before you feel ready, how to create safe and courageous spaces where people speak up, and why legacy is built through people, not titles. You’ll also hear a powerful transformation story of a member who struggled with English and a stammer, kept showing up anyway, and eventually performed stand-up comedy internationally.

    If you want stronger leadership development, public speaking confidence, and practical tools for global team communication, hit play now. Subscribe, share this with a friend who stays quiet in meetings, and leave a review. What’s one conversation you’re ready to take ownership of this week?

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    46 mins
  • E116 - What If Communication Is A Combination Lock?
    Mar 23 2026

    Two people can talk for ten minutes, agree with their heads, and still miss each other completely. That exact moment, when words are being exchanged but meaning is not, is where an uncommon communicator steps in and takes ownership of the conversation instead of letting it drift into confusion or conflict.

    I’m James Gable, and I’m kicking off a brand new season by breaking down the core framework I use to navigate tough conversations and reach mutual understanding. We start with self-awareness and the four common communication styles: passive, aggressive, passive-aggressive, and assertive. Then we go deeper into a piece most people miss: how the other person listens. Are they analytical and fact-driven, relational and connection-first, critical and evaluative, or task-focused and efficiency-minded? When you can spot the listening style in real time, you can choose a better approach and stop talking past each other.

    We also get practical with communication tools you can use today, including authentic curiosity, labeling (“It seems like…”) to confirm what you’re hearing, and mirroring to prompt people to expand and clarify their real meaning. If you want better communication skills at work, stronger relationships at home, and simple conflict resolution techniques that actually work, this season opener gives you a clear starting point. Subscribe, share the show with someone you communicate with daily, and leave a review so more people can find the tools to make conversations work.

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    theuncommoncommunicator.com

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    11 mins
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