Pain that shows up in midlife has a special way of messing with your confidence. One day you’re fine, the next day your knee, hip, back, or shoulder is changing how you sleep, move, work, and show up for the people you love. We wanted a smarter answer than “that’s just aging,” so we sat down with Stacey Roberts, a longtime physical therapist and chronic pain expert, to talk about what’s actually happening and what you can do next.

Stacey shares the moment that changed her own thinking: a sudden knee “pop,” a swollen joint, and an appointment that rushed straight to total knee replacement and a cortisone injection. From there, we unpack a key takeaway for anyone dealing with arthritis, joint pain, muscle pain, or chronic pain: imaging does not equal destiny. You can have significant arthritis and still be pain-free, and you can often reduce pain by finding the real drivers instead of chasing a quick fix.

We also connect the dots to perimenopause and menopause. As estrogen and other hormones decline, you lose natural anti-inflammatory support, which can turn up pain even when your habits haven’t changed. We talk HRT as one possible tool, plus practical lifestyle strategies that matter just as much: reducing ultra-processed foods, checking biomechanics and movement patterns, considering gut health and food sensitivities, and taking stress hormones like cortisol and thyroid function seriously. If you’ve been told to just push through, this conversation offers a different path: curiosity, personalization, and a plan.

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Stacey Roberts PT, RN, MSN has over 30 years of experience helping patients live pain-free while achieving their health goals. She is a Holistic Master’s Prepared Registered Nurse, a Musculoskeletal Specialist, a Pelvic and Sexual Health Physiotherapist, and a Functional Medicine Specialist. Stacey owns the New You Health and Wellness Practice in Wauwatosa, Wisconsin, combining cutting-edge technology, advanced manual therapy, and functional medicine to help patients attain optimal health. Many of her patients, including herself have avoided surgery, drugs, and injections. She is the author of the #1 best-selling book, ​​

The Pain Free Formula: Solving The Puzzle of Muscle and Joint Pain Without Surgery, Drugs, or Injections and the host of the #1 podcast on chronic pain, The Pain Free Formula

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https://newyouhealthandwellness.com

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Sex and desire can change in midlife in ways that feel sudden, personal, and isolating. We wanted to pull this topic out of the shadows and put real language around what is actually happening in your body, your brain, and your life. Our guest, Dr. Sarah Berg, is a board-certified OBGYN and certified menopause practitioner known for a direct, honest approach, and she helps us replace shame with clarity.

We dig into why menopause libido changes are rarely “just hormones.” Dr. Berg breaks down the biology that can make sex uncomfortable including vaginal dryness, tissue changes, pH shifts, and urinary symptoms that raise UTI risk or create fear of leakage. We define genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM) in plain terms, explain why it affects the vulva, vagina, urethra, and bladder, and talk through how painful sex can create a lasting pain-tension cycle that takes time to unwind. You will also hear why pelvic floor physical therapy can be a game changer for both function and pleasure, and what to expect if you book an evaluation.

We also get practical about treatment options and expectations. Dr. Berg explains where vaginal estrogen fits, why it is different from systemic hormone therapy, and why it matters for comfort and UTI prevention. We cover testosterone as a possible tool for carefully selected cases, plus the real first step many women skip: bringing it up with your clinician and asking for time to address sexual health properly. If you are carrying the mental load, running on no sleep, or caring for everyone but yourself, we talk about that too because desire does not thrive in survival mode.

Dr. Sarah Berg is a board-certified OB-GYN and Certified Menopause Practitioner who spent over a decade caring for women across all life stages. After seeing too many women feel dismissed or confused in midlife, she made it her mission to change that through education.

She is the founder of Selfority, a science-based women’s health education platform designed to make menopause information accessible, engaging, and empowering. Dr. Berg writes for Katie Couric Media, Parents.com, and Unbiased Science, and is a national speaker known for her honest, direct, and slightly “spicy” approach to women’s health.

Her work helps women better understand their bodies, advocate for their care, and feel confident navigating the menopause transition.

Website: https://www.selfority.com/

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Menopause can feel like you woke up in a different brain, but what if the real story is that your brain has always worked this way and hormones are simply turning up the volume? We sit down with leadership coach and R.E.A.L Women founder Chellie Adler to talk about the often-missed link between perimenopause, menopause, and neurodivergence, especially ADHD in women and autism in women who were never identified in childhood.

We dig into what happens when estrogen shifts disrupt dopamine regulation and executive functioning, why your carefully built “scaffolding” of coping tools can suddenly collapse, and how that can show up as distractibility, emotional reactivity, sensory overload, and the infamous string of “side quests” that derails the day. Chellie also explains why many women finally recognize the pattern when their kids get evaluated, and how to think about screening tools like the Adult ADHD Self-Report Scale (ASRS) as a starting point rather than a diagnosis.

From there, we zoom out to the workplace: masking fatigue, burnout, and why so many experienced midlife women leave roles they’re actually great at. We talk practical supports for individuals (qualified evaluation, therapy with ADHD/autism training, medication options, executive function support, and how hormone therapy may help some women) and concrete accommodations employers can make, from lighting and temperature to benefits and culture.

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Chellie is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) who specializes in supporting women navigating ADHD and AuDHD, particularly those who have spent years feeling overlooked or misunderstood while appearing “fine” on the outside. Her work focuses on helping women better understand their brains through a neurodivergent-affirming lens so they feel validated, empowered, and supported.

At Everlasting Wellness LLC, Chellie provides ADHD assessments and therapy using a trauma-informed, client-centered approach. She integrates cognitive behavioral therapy, executive functioning skill-building, and practical strategies to help clients manage anxiety, burnout, perfectionism, and major life transitions.

Earlier in her career, Chellie worked across multiple areas of human services in New York, including at-risk youth, geriatric mental health, community colleges, and DOJ/OMH collaborations. Today, she is especially passionate about helping high-achieving individuals who carry significant responsibilities yet feel stretched thin find clarity, resilience, and sustainable ways to thrive.

Website: https://www.kristinswansonconsulting.com/

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MiDOViA is dedicated to changing the narrative about menopause by educating, raising awareness & supporting women in this stage of life, both at home and in the workplace. Visit midovia.com to learn more.

The information, including but not limited to, text, graphics, images & other material contained on this website are for informational purposes only. No material on this site is intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.