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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

By: A.J. Mahari
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Summary

 A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.

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Episodes
  • BPD Joint Therapy Fantasy BPD Right Fighting Pathological Lying vs Your Eggshell Walking

    BPD Joint Therapy Fantasy BPD Right Fighting Pathological Lying vs Your Eggshell Walking
    May 10 2026
    BPD Joint Therapy Fantasy BPD Right-Fighting & Pathological Lying vs Your Eggshell-Walking

    BPD joint therapy doesn’t work and is a fantasy bonded nightmare of Borderline victim/martyr cs your Codependent walking on eggshells and trauma bond addiction to intermittent reinforcement.
    Borderlines - unless clinically proven to actually be recovered need their own therapy and you need yours. BPD relationships without full BPD recovery are toxic and you’re not being “loved” while being abused.
    BPD right-fighting and pathological lying block anything meaningful in joint therapy as they control
    the process initiating BPD Induced Conversation and projecting on to the therapist as they do you in life.

    Stop trying to recycle toxic relationships after the first breakup!

    https://ajmahari.ca/sessions - Sessions with A.J.
    https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts
    https://ajmahari.com - Online Store

    100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025
    Million Podcasts has ranked this podcast in the top 60 Codependency Podcasts,
    the topThis podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at:
    100 Narcissistic Abuse Podcasts and the top 100 in their Toxic Relationship
    Million Podcasats:
    https://www.millionpodcasts.com/codependency-podcasts/
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    https://www.millionpodcasts.com/toxic-relationship-podcasts/
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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • BPD Negative Behavior - Don’t Confront It - What Can You Do_

    BPD Negative Behavior - Don’t Confront It - What Can You Do_
    Apr 8 2026
    BPD Negative Behavior - Don’t Confront It - What Can You Do?

    BPD Negative Behavior - You can’t confront it. You may have unsuccessfully tried endless times. It increases your suffering each time, but to not say anything will increase your suffering as well. This is the heart of BPD toxic relationships wherein you just cannot win.

    What can you actually do? What you can do is admit your are powerless over the person with BPD. So, then what in the middle of no win relationship impossibility?

    https://ajmahari.ca/sessions - Sessions with A.J.
    https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts
    https://ajmahari.com - Online Store

    This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at:
    100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025
    Million Podcasts has ranked this podcast in the top 60 Codependency Podcasts,
    the top 100 Narcissistic Abuse Podcasts and the top 100 in their Toxic Relationship
    Podcast lists.
    https://www.millionpodcasts.com/codependency-podcasts/
    https://www.millionpodcasts.com/narcissistic-abuse-podcasts/
    https://www.millionpodcasts.com/toxic-relationship-podcasts/
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    32 mins
  • High Functioning Borderlines in Careers vs Relationships

    High Functioning Borderlines in Careers vs Relationships
    Apr 5 2026
    High Functioning BPD in Careers vs Relationships

    How can a person diagnosed with BPD and with many active Borderline traits, behaviour etc in a relationship possibly function in careers, and often be or be becoming Social Workers and Psychologists?

    The core reason is the vast difference in many with high functioning BPD having a high IQ in the absence of emotional relational intelligence. They remain, often, toxic in interpersonal relationships despite functioning (to various degrees) in careers or professions.

    People with a degree in Social Work or Psychology are not going to be able to help themselves due to lack/loss of “self” and lacking emotional intelligence and lacking emotional maturity and so much more

    This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at:
    100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025
    Million Podcasts has ranked this podcast in the top 60 Codependency Podcasts,
    the top 100 Narcissistic Abuse Podcasts and the top 100 in their Toxic Relationship
    Podcast lists.
    https://www.millionpodcasts.com/codependency-podcasts/
    https://www.millionpodcasts.com/narcissistic-abuse-podcasts/
    https://www.millionpodcasts.com/toxic-relationship-podcasts/
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    1 hr
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Thanks very good information,so helpful in understanding all this. Helping me make sense of all this

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Very helpful - honest and realistic therapy. It reminds the listener to think of themselves not the bpd!

Really helpful

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