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Sober Awkward

Sober Awkward

By: soberawkward
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Winner, Best Well-Being Podcast at The Australian Podcast Awards 2024


Have you ever woken up after a big night out and declared, “I’m never drinking again,” only to find yourself waving $50 at a barman by Happy Hour? Yep, Vic’s been there too.


Join Victoria Vanstone, award-winning podcaster, author, and former binge-drinking party animal, as she explores what it’s really like to be sober in a world absolutely soaked in alcohol. Each week on Sober Awkward, Vic dives into boozy topics, social pressures, anxiety, identity wobbles, and the messy reality of quitting drinking, opening up the shame shed of humiliating stories so you don’t have to feel alone in yours.


With humour, honesty, and zero judgement, Vic tells it like it is, from vomit and one-night stands to life on the other side of destructive drinking. If you’ve hit a wall, you’re fed up with anxiety, headaches, and blackouts, or you’re just quietly sober-curious, pop the kettle on and learn how to feel the awkward, and do it anyway.

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Episodes
  • The Share Shed: Writing Competition Entries
    Jun 17 2026

    The Share Shed – Sober Awkward Writing Competition Specials - No More Numbing Out - By Aliz, Texas


    Every Thursday, we’re handing the story telling over to you.


    Over the next few months, Vic will be reading some of the incredible entries from this year’s Sober Awkward Writing Competition. Honest, funny, heartbreaking, hopeful, awkward and beautifully human, these stories come from people all over the world who have experienced the ups and downs of changing their relationship with alcohol.


    Whether you’re sober curious, newly alcohol-free, years into recovery, or simply wondering if life might feel better without booze, we hope these stories remind you that you’re not alone.


    Writing has a powerful way of helping us make sense of our lives. It can shine a light on things we’ve hidden away, help us process difficult experiences, and remind us just how resilient we really are. Plus, it’s considerably cheaper than therapy and doesn’t require you to wear pants.


    So grab a cuppa, get comfortable, and join us for this week’s Share Shed as Vic tells another story from our amazing community.


    💛 Resources & Links


    📘 Victoria’s memoir – A Thousand Wasted Sundays

    A brutally honest and hilarious look at motherhood, anxiety, and ditching the booze.

    👉 Buy the book here or head to the website to find out more about writing mentorships with Vic.

    👉 www.soberawkward.com


    🫖 Join The Cuppa Community

    Our private, supportive online space for sober folk

    👉 www.cuppa.community


    📘 Get the Sober Awkward Guide

    Our downloadable toolkit for ditching booze the awkward way.

    👉 The Sober Awkward Guide


    📱 Follow us for daily sober fun:

    Instagram: @soberawkward

    TikTok: @soberawkward

    Facebook: Sober Awkward Community for Women



    📞 SUPPORT & RESOURCES

    If anything in today’s episode felt familiar, or you’re worried about your drinking, there is support available. You don’t have to do this alone.

    🇦🇺 Australia

    National Alcohol & Other Drug Hotline

    📞 1800 250 015 (24/7)

    https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/alcohol-and-drug-information-service

    Lifeline

    📞 13 11 14 (24/7)

    https://www.lifeline.org.au

    Hello Sunday Morning / Daybreak

    https://hellosundaymorning.org

    https://daybreakapp.com.au

    Clean Slate Clinic

    https://www.cleanslateclinic.com

    🇬🇧 United Kingdom

    Drinkline

    📞 0300 123 1110

    https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/alcohol-advice/alcohol-support/

    Alcohol Change UK

    https://alcoholchange.org.uk

    We Are With You

    https://www.wearewithyou.org.uk

    🌍 International

    Alcoholics Anonymous

    https://www.aa.org

    SMART Recovery

    https://www.smartrecovery.org


    💬 A Gentle Reminder

    If you’re drinking in the morning to cope, especially with anxiety or withdrawal symptoms, it’s important to speak to a doctor or medical professional. Stopping alcohol suddenly can be unsafe for some people, and getting support can make a huge difference.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    8 mins
  • Nangs: The Addiction Nobody Talks About with Sam Bramman
    Jun 14 2026

    This week on Sober Awkward, Vic steps away from alcohol to explore another addiction that is quietly growing across Australia: Nangs.


    Nitrous oxide, often sold legally and delivered to your door within minutes, is commonly seen as harmless party fun. But for Sam Bramman, what started as a few nangs at a house party quickly spiralled into a devastating addiction that led to psychosis, hospitalisation and a long road to recovery.


    Sam shares the shocking reality of what happened when nitrous oxide took over his life, including the psychotic episode that saw him drive from Sydney to the Gold Coast before ending up in a psychiatric ward. He talks openly about addiction, recovery and why he believes Australia needs stronger regulation around the sale and delivery of nitrous oxide.


    Now the founder of the No 2 Nangs campaign, Sam is using his experience to educate young people, support families and push for change. He is also preparing to run 350 kilometres from Sydney to Parliament House in Canberra to raise awareness of the issue and campaign for greater public education around a substance he describes as both legal and lethal.


    It’s an eye-opening conversation about addiction, vulnerability, recovery and a drug many of us know very little about.


    Follow Sam’s work:

    Instagram: @sambramman

    TikTok: @stepsforchange


    💛 Resources & Links


    📘 Victoria’s memoir – A Thousand Wasted Sundays

    A brutally honest and hilarious look at motherhood, anxiety, and ditching the booze.

    👉 Buy the book here


    🎧 Listen to more Sober Awkward episodes

    👉 www.soberawkward.com


    🫖 Join The Cuppa Community

    Our private, supportive online space for sober folk

    👉 www.cuppa.community


    📘 Get the Sober Awkward Guide

    Our downloadable toolkit for ditching booze the awkward way.

    👉 The Sober Awkward Guide


    📱 Follow us for daily sober fun:

    Instagram: @soberawkward

    TikTok: @soberawkward

    Facebook: Sober Awkward Community for Women

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    37 mins
  • The Share Shed: Awkward Questions & Confessions
    Jun 10 2026

    This week in the Share Shed, one listener wakes up to discover he’d apparently spent 40 minutes running barefoot on a treadmill at 3am… after swimming in a stranger’s pool and blacking out at a party.


    The only problem? He remembers none of it.


    A hilarious story with a surprisingly thoughtful twist about sobriety, fitness, and what happens when one obsession gets replaced by another.

    The Share Shed is where listeners send in their funniest, cringiest and most unbelievable drinking stories. It’s not about judgement, it’s about recognising how wild things could get when alcohol was in charge, and laughing about it now we’re on the other side.


    But sometimes, it’s also a place for the harder stuff, the honest bits we don’t always say out loud.


    If you’ve got a story you’d like to get off your chest, funny, awkward or something a bit more serious, you can send it to Vic at:


    vic@soberawkward.com


    Anonymous is absolutely fine. In fact, for legal reasons, probably preferable!!



    📞 SUPPORT & RESOURCES


    If anything in today’s Shame Shed felt familiar, or you’re worried about your drinking, there is support out there. You don’t have to do this on your own.


    🇦🇺 Australia

    National Alcohol & Other Drug Hotline

    📞 1800 250 015 (24/7)

    🌐 https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/alcohol-and-drug-information-service


    Lifeline

    📞 13 11 14 (24/7)

    🌐 https://www.lifeline.org.au


    Hello Sunday Morning / Daybreak

    🌐 https://hellosundaymorning.org

    🌐 https://daybreakapp.com.au


    Clean Slate Clinic

    🌐 https://www.cleanslateclinic.com


    🇬🇧 United Kingdom

    Drinkline

    📞 0300 123 1110

    🌐 https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/alcohol-advice/alcohol-support/


    Alcohol Change UK

    🌐 https://alcoholchange.org.uk


    We Are With You

    🌐 https://www.wearewithyou.org.uk


    🌍 International

    Alcoholics Anonymous

    🌐 https://www.aa.org


    SMART Recovery

    🌐 https://www.smartrecovery.org



    💬 A gentle reminder

    If you’re drinking in the morning to cope, especially with anxiety or withdrawal symptoms, it’s really important to speak to a doctor or medical professional. Stopping suddenly can be unsafe for some people, and support can make a huge difference.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Absolutely love this podcast, it's like having 2 sober coaches in your pocket! Brilliant!

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It’s that time of year where we all get a little sober curious… I started listening to this on a whim and now Vic and Hamish accompany me on dog walks, long car journeys and even the occasional run.. I have genuinely laughed out loud and been thoroughly entertained all whilst strengthening my resolve to give up drinking. Thanks both.

My new mates Vic & Hamish

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