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SHE MD

SHE MD

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 SHE MD is a weekly podcast hosted by world-renowned OBGYN, Dr. Thais Aliabadi, “Dr. A,” and women's advocate and influencer, Mary Alice Haney. Their candid conversations with celebrity guests and today's leading experts about women's health topics, such as menopause, endometriosis, PCOS, and fertility empower their audience with the knowledge and tools to become their own health advocates.Dr. A and Mary Alice dive deep into critical health issues, offering women the knowledge and tools to become their best health advocates.At SHE MD, we believe that every woman deserves access to the latest medical insights, personalized care strategies, and expert advice to navigate their health journey. From breaking down myths to providing practical tips, Dr. Aliabadi and Mary Alice Haney create a welcoming and informative space for women to take control of their health. The podcast features exclusive interviews with top-tier celebrity guests and leading experts across the medical, wellness, and health industries. Together, they explore real-world stories, struggles, and successes to ensure that every listener can feel heard and supported.SHE MD aims to change that by providing a platform where women can receive trustworthy, expert advice on key health issues affecting their lives. Whether you’re dealing with painful menstrual cycles, navigating fertility challenges, or going through menopause, SHE MD brings clarity to these topics in a way that feels personal, approachable, and actionable. Dr. Thais Aliabadi provides expert insights into the most pressing women’s health issues, offering listeners a chance to learn from one of the leading voices in the field. Her knowledge is complemented by Mary Alice Haney's ability to relate to everyday challenges, offering a compassionate and approachable perspective on complex topics.Meet the HostsDr. Thais Aliabadi, "Dr. A"Dr. Thais Aliabadi is a renowned board-certified OBGYN, known for her compassionate, patient-first approach. Specializing in fertility, high-risk pregnancies, menopause, and minimally invasive surgeries, Dr. A has spent her career guiding women through all stages of life. With experience treating high-profile patients and a commitment to public health education, she’s a trusted voice advocating for better healthcare access for women globally. Dr. Aliabadi frequently appears in major media to discuss key women’s health issues.Mary Alice HaneyMary Alice Haney is a prominent women's advocate and lifestyle influencer who empowers women to take control of their health and wellness. With a background in fashion and lifestyle, she brings a holistic approach to well-being. As co-host of SHE MD, Mary Alice fosters open, relatable conversations on often-overlooked women's health topics, helping women break down barriers and gain the knowledge they need to advocate for themselves. Her commitment to providing practical, actionable advice has made her a trusted figure in the health community.ResourcesSHE M/D- https://www.shemdpodcast.comSHE M/D YouTube- https://www.youtube.com/@SHEMDPodcastInstagram- https://www.instagram.com/shemdpodcast/Mary Alice Haney Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/haneyofficial/Dr A Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/drthaisaliabadi/Tik Tok- https://www.tiktok.com/@shemdpodcastFacebook- https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556530329981&sk=aboutTwitter- https://x.com/shemdpodcast#SHEMDPodcast #WomensHealth #HealthAdvocacy #DrThaisAliabadi #MaryAliceHaney #MenopauseMatters #EndometriosisAwareness #PCOS #FertilityJourney #OBGYN #HealthAndWellness #MedicalInsights #HealthEducation #EmpoweringWomen #HealthcareSelfAdvocacy #HealthTips #BreakingHealthMyths #WomenSupportingWomen #HealthJourney Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Physical Illness & Disease
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  • Narcissism vs Borderline: The Signs Everyone Gets Wrong with Dr. Suzanne Wallach

    Narcissism vs Borderline: The Signs Everyone Gets Wrong with Dr. Suzanne Wallach
    Apr 14 2026
    Disclaimer: This interview includes in-depth discussions of serious mental health topics, such as personality disorders and other highly sensitive subjects. These topics may be distressing or triggering for some listeners.In this episode of SHE MD, Mary Alice Haney and Dr. Thaïs Aliabadi sit down with Dr. Suzanne Wallach, a leading expert in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), to unpack what every woman should understand about emotional regulation, trauma, and personality disorders. From the difference between borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, and narcissism to the real signs of emotional dysregulation, this conversation brings clarity to topics that are often misunderstood and misdiagnosed.Dr. Wallach breaks down how trauma shapes behavior, why narcissists rarely seek help, and what narcissistic abuse and gaslighting actually look like in relationships. The conversation also explores how to recognize unhealthy patterns, why you should never stay in a relationship where you’re being disrespected, and how emotional overwhelm impacts your ability to think clearly or problem-solve in the moment.You’ll also learn practical, science-backed tools you can start using immediately, including DBT techniques like the TIPP method for panic attacks and emotional distress. The episode expands into parenting and generational trauma, offering insight on how to raise emotionally healthy children through validation, boundaries, and consistency. If you’ve ever struggled with your emotions, relationships, or mental health, this episode is filled with actionable strategies to help you regain control and build a more stable, grounded life.Subscribe to SHE MD Podcast for expert tips on PCOS, endometriosis, fertility, hormonal balance, mental health, and more. Share with friends and visit SHE MD website and Ovii for research-backed resources, holistic health strategies, and expert guidance on women’s health and well-being.SponsorsMidi: Ready to feel your best and write your second act script? Visit JoinMidi.com today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Ka'Chava: Get 15% off your first order at kachava.com with code SHEMD.Talkiatry: Head to Talkiatry.com/shemd and complete the short assessment to get matched with an in-network psychiatrist in just a few minutes. Ancient + Brave: Go to Ancientandbrave.com/planet and use the code SHEMD for 10 dollars off any purchase. MudWtr: Head to mudwtr.com and grab your starter kit today! Right now, our listeners get an exclusive deal—up to 43% off starter kits, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code SHEMD.Gusto: Try Gusto today at gusto.com/SHEMD, and get three months free when you run your first payroll.What You’ll LearnThe difference between borderline personality disorder (BPD), bipolar disorder, and narcissismWhy narcissists rarely self-diagnose, and why they’re difficult to treatSigns you may be experiencing emotional dysregulation or unresolved traumaWhat narcissistic abuse and gaslighting actually look likeWhy BPD is often misdiagnosed as bipolar disorderThe role of childhood trauma in personality disordersHow to tell if someone is a narcissist. or just not treating you wellWhy you should never stay in a relationship where you’re being disrespectedThe DBT “TIPP” method for panic attacks and emotional overwhelmHow to lower distress quickly and regain control of your thoughtsWhy you can’t problem-solve while emotionally floodedThe importance of sleep, nutrition, and physical health in emotional regulationHow to raise emotionally healthy children without shame or overpraiseWhy validation and boundaries must coexist in parentingHow generational trauma develops, and how to break the cycleKey Timestamps(0:00) Introduction to SHE MD(3:16) Welcome Dr. Suzanne Wallach!(4:54) What Is Narcissism?(6:36) Is Narcissism Based On Childhood Trauma?(8:27) Borderline Personality Disorder vs Narcissism?(12:41) Borderline vs Dependent Personality Disorder(13:37) Cluster B Disorders: Higher Risk of Self-Harm & Suicide(14:05) Women Are Overdiagnosed With Personality Disorders(15:58) Many Therapists Avoid Treating Borderline Personality Disorder(22:15) DBT Skills Coaching: 24/7 Support in Crisis Moments(23:36) Thoughts vs Ideation(27:00) How Dr. Suzanne Handle Patients With Suicide Plans(30:29) Does Trauma Come First in Treating Cluster B Disorders(37:35) How to Avoid Raising a Narcissist as a Parent(38:20) Praise Parenting: Where’s the Healthy Balance?(42:24) Opposite Parenting Styles After Divorce(48:01) Should Trauma Be the First Focus in Treating DBT?(58:54) How to Recognize BPD or Narcissism: Key Signs & Diagnosis(1:02:44) What Is Bipolar Disorder?(1:04:40) Bipolar vs BPD: Genetics vs Trauma(1:05:05) The TIPP Skill(1:13:45) Rapid Fire QuestionsKey TakeawaysYou can’t think clearly during emotional distress. Regulation must come firstPersonality disorders are treatable, and many can go into ...
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    1 hr and 17 mins
  • This One Change Could Lower Your Dementia Risk by 35% (Science-Backed)

    This One Change Could Lower Your Dementia Risk by 35% (Science-Backed)
    Apr 7 2026
    In this episode of SHE MD, Mary Alice Haney sits down with preventative neurologist Dr. Kellyann Niotis to unpack what every woman needs to know about brain health, memory, and dementia prevention. From understanding the difference between normal forgetfulness and early warning signs to breaking down how working memory changes with age, this conversation offers clarity, reassurance, and actionable insight. Dr. Niotis explains why women are disproportionately affected by Alzheimer’s disease and how factors like hormones, genetics, and lifestyle all play a role.They explore the most powerful, research-backed ways to protect your brain, starting with the basics: sleep, exercise, nutrition, and stress management. You’ll learn why strength training is critical for long-term brain health, how the Mediterranean diet can reduce dementia risk by up to 35%, and why your genes are not your destiny, even if you carry high-risk markers like APOE4. The episode also dives into mental health, social connection, and the surprising link between hearing loss and cognitive decline.Dr. Niotis shares what actually works (and what doesn’t) when it comes to supplements, brain games, and trending “quick fixes,” along with emerging research on medications, biomarkers, and preventative care. If you want to stay sharp, protect your memory, and take control of your long-term brain health, this episode is filled with practical tools you can start using today.Subscribe to SHE MD Podcast for expert tips on PCOS, endometriosis, fertility, hormonal balance, mental health, and more. Share with friends and visit SHE MD website and Ovii for research-backed resources, holistic health strategies, and expert guidance on women’s health and well-being.SponsorsMidi: Ready to feel your best and write your second act script? Visit JoinMidi.com today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Myriad: List GetMyRisk.com to learn more about hereditary cancer testing and how you can use Myriad’s virtual care option for fast, at-home testing - no office visit required. Osea: Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code SHEMD at oseamalibu.com. Momentus: Get up to 35% off your first order at livemomentous.com with code SHEMD.Ka'Chava: Get 15% off your first order at kachava.com with code SHEMD.What You’ll LearnThe difference between normal forgetfulness and early signs of dementiaWhy working memory declines and how to support itHow sleep quality (not just quantity) impacts brain healthThe best types of exercise for protecting your brain long-termWhy strength training is critical (and often overlooked) for womenHow the Mediterranean diet can reduce dementia risk by up to 35%The connection between hormones, perimenopause, and brain healthWhy women are more affected by Alzheimer’s disease than menHow stress, isolation, and mental health impact cognitive declineThe truth about supplements, nootropics, and “brain boosters”How alcohol, marijuana, and emerging therapies affect the brainWhy hearing loss is a major (and surprising) risk factor for dementiaThe role of biomarkers, genetics, and preventative testingKey Timestamps(0:00) Introduction to SHE MD(3:47) Meet Dr. Kellyann Niotis (Brain Health Expert)(5:01) Genetics, Risks, and APOE4(8:34) Brain Diseases: Alzheimer’s vs Parkinson’s vs ALS(10:28) How Doctors Assess Brain Health Risk(12:01) Sleep & Brain Health(19:05) Best Type of Exercise for Your Brain(29:05) Nutrition & The Mediterranean Diet(29:50) Alcohol, Marijuana & Brain Impact(33:53) GLP-1s & Brain Health Benefits(36:37) Mental Health, SSRIs & Dementia Risk(39:17) Why Women Are More Affected(43:31) Memory Loss vs Normal Forgetfulness(45:13) Hormone Therapy & Brain Health(49:19) Supplements That Actually Help(51:58) Omega-3 Testing & Recommendations(57:38) Is There a Dementia Epidemic?(1:00:59) Working Memory Explained(1:02:45) Rapid Fire Questions(1:06:11) Audience Q&A (Prevention, Diet, Memory)(1:08:06) Future of Brain Health & New Research(1:10:23) Where to Find Dr. NiotisKey TakeawaysYour genes are not your destiny. Lifestyle plays a major role in brain healthSleep, exercise, diet, and social connection are the most powerful prevention toolsStrength training is just as important as cardio for cognitive healthChronic stress and poor sleep are both highly damaging to the brainHormonal changes in perimenopause may increase dementia risk in womenBrain games alone won’t prevent dementia, holistic lifestyle changes are keyEven small improvements in daily habits can significantly reduce riskPrevention is currently the most effective strategy against neurodegenerative diseaseGuest BioDr. Kellyann Niotis is a leading expert in preventative neurology and brain health. She specializes in identifying early risk factors for neurodegenerative diseases like Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s and helping patients take proactive steps to protect their cognitive health. Through her research and clinical work, she ...
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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • The “Healthy” Breakfast That’s Secretly Hurting You ft. The Glucose Goddess

    The “Healthy” Breakfast That’s Secretly Hurting You ft. The Glucose Goddess
    Mar 31 2026
    In this episode of SHE MD, Mary Alice Haney sits down with Jessie Inchauspé, also known as the Glucose Goddess, to break down the powerful role blood sugar plays in your energy, hormones, mood, and overall health. Jessie explains what glucose actually is, why spikes and crashes lead to cravings, fatigue, and inflammation, and how simple, science-backed habits can help you feel better without restrictive dieting.They walk through easy, actionable “glucose hacks,” including why a savory breakfast is key, how the order you eat your food can reduce spikes by up to 75%, and simple habits like walking after meals or using vinegar to stabilize blood sugar. The conversation also explores how glucose impacts women’s health, including perimenopause and menopause, and why blood sugar becomes harder to manage as hormones shift.Jessie also shares insights from her new book, ‘The Nine Months That Count Forever,’ revealing how nutrition during pregnancy directly shapes a baby’s brain, metabolism, and long-term health. She highlights critical nutrients like protein and choline, nutrients that up to 90% of pregnant women are missing, and explains how small dietary changes can make a lifelong difference.Subscribe to SHE MD Podcast for expert tips on PCOS, endometriosis, fertility, hormonal balance, mental health, and more. Share with friends and visit SHE MD website and Ovii for research-backed resources, holistic health strategies, and expert guidance on women’s health and well-being.SponsorsProlon: For a limited time, Prolon is offering She MD listeners15% off sitewide plus a $40 bonus gift when you subscribe to their 5-Day Program!R+Co: Visit randco.com and use code SheMD20 at checkout for 20% off your first purchase. Use code SheMD20 for 20% off your first orderTalkiatry: Head to Talkiatry.com/shemd and complete the short assessment to get matched with an in-network psychiatrist in just a few minutes. Premier Protein: Find your favorite flavor at PremierProtein.com or at Amazon, Walmart, and other major retailers.Ancient + Brave: Go to Ancientandbrave.com/planet and use the code SHEMD for 10 dollars off any purchase. Care.com: Start your senior care journey with confidence. When it’s not you, it’s Care.com. For a limited time, go to Care.com and use code SHEMD for 20% off of your initial care.com subscription or a Senior Care Advisor Plan.What You’ll LearnWhat glucose is and why it’s your body’s primary energy sourceWhat causes blood sugar spikes and why they lead to crashes, cravings, and fatigueWhy a sweet breakfast sets you up for a full day of sugar cravingsThe simple “food order” hack that can reduce glucose spikes by up to 75%How walking or moving after meals helps stabilize blood sugarWhy vinegar before meals can significantly reduce glucose spikesHow blood sugar impacts hormones, mood, inflammation, and agingWhy glucose regulation becomes more important during perimenopause and menopauseThe connection between blood sugar and mental health, including anxiety and brain fogHow nutrition during pregnancy shapes a baby’s brain, metabolism, and long-term healthWhy most pregnant women are deficient in key nutrients like protein and cholineHow to optimize your diet before and during pregnancy for better outcomesKey Timestamps(00:00) Introduction to SHE MD(02:16) Meet The Glucose Goddess Story(04:48) How A Glucose Monitor Changed Everything(06:49) What Glucose Really Does In Your Body(08:36) Why Glucose Spikes Are Dangerous(10:54) The Powerful Savory Breakfast Hack(12:23) The Truth About Fruit And Sugar(13:39) Why Orange Juice Is Misleading(15:05) How Morning Sugar Ruins Your Day(16:21) The Food Order Hack Explained(17:51) Vinegar Trick To Reduce Spikes(27:22) How Glucose Impacts Your Sleep(29:15) The Truth About Intermittent Fasting(32:49) What GLP-1 Drugs Really Do(35:40) Blood Sugar And Mental Health Link(40:16) The Truth About Pregnancy Nutrition(59:51) Top Glucose Hacks To Start TodayKey TakeawaysGlucose is your body’s primary source of energy, but spikes and crashes can negatively impact your mood, energy, hormones, and long-term health.A sweet breakfast leads to a glucose spike and crash, increasing cravings and fatigue throughout the day.Eating foods in the right order… vegetables first, then protein, then carbs… can reduce glucose spikes by up to 75%.Simple habits like walking after meals or drinking vinegar before carbs can significantly stabilize blood sugar.Blood sugar regulation becomes more difficult during perimenopause and menopause, making these strategies even more important.Nutrition during pregnancy directly impacts a baby’s brain development, metabolism, and lifelong health.Choline and protein are critical nutrients during pregnancy, yet most women are not getting enough.Blood sugar stability is a powerful, immediate lever to improve energy, reduce cravings, and support overall health.Guest BioJessie Inchauspé, also known as the Glucose ...
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    1 hr and 4 mins
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