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God of the Romantic

God of the Romantic

By: Gary & Kim Elliot
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Ready for a Romantic Reformation?

God doesn’t just want to bless your love life. He wants to dismantle it and make it holy.

This podcast alternates between two sacred tensions:
– The God who designs covenant, desire, and divine timing with terrifying precision
– And the long, refining work of waiting well for His best in marriage

No dating hacks. No Christian fluff. No rushing God because you’re lonely.

Here, we talk Reformed theology, spiritual formation, and what it actually costs to trust God with your heart, your future, and your intimacy. We believe waiting isn’t punishment — it’s preparation. That holiness isn’t boring — it’s dangerous. And that intimacy with Christ will dismantle you long before it fulfills you.

This is for the ones brave enough to believe God’s way is better — even when it contradicts culture, your friends, and your own impulses.

Enter if you’re ready to be changed.

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Episodes
  • You Can't Scroll Yourself Into Contentment

    You Can't Scroll Yourself Into Contentment
    Jun 18 2026
    Nobody likes waiting.

    Especially when everyone around you seems to be getting married, building families, and moving into the life you prayed for.

    In this conversation, we talk honestly about singleness, disappointment, contentment, and the hidden work God does in seasons that feel silent. Because contentment is not natural. It’s learned. And sometimes the only way to learn it… is by going without what you desperately want for a season.

    We discuss: • Why singleness is never wasted • The danger of making romance an idol • What Paul meant by “I learned to be content” • Why scrolling can’t heal discontentment • How God prepares us for what’s ahead

    Before God gives us someone else, He often teaches us that Christ is enough.

    Welcome to the Romantic Reformation: godofheromantic.com
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    7 mins
  • Dating Lists Might Be Ruining Your Love Life

    Dating Lists Might Be Ruining Your Love Life
    Jun 11 2026
    Should Christians make a list for their future spouse?

    Tall. Creative. Attractive. Successful. Spiritually mature. Emotionally available.

    Modern dating culture tells us to define exactly what we want and go find it.But do we actually know what we need?

    In this conversation, we unpack:
    • Dating apps and preference lists
    • Whether God cares about your “type”
    • The danger of rigid expectations
    • Why singleness often prepares you for marriage
    • The difference between your desires and God’s wisdomSometimes God fulfills desires you never even dared to ask for.

    And sometimes He lovingly changes your list altogether.Because marriage isn’t just about fulfilling preferences—it’s about becoming more like Christ.

    Welcome to the Romantic Reformation: godofheromantic.com
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    8 mins
  • Stop Comparing Your Love Life… It Was Never Meant to Match Theirs

    Stop Comparing Your Love Life… It Was Never Meant to Match Theirs
    Jun 4 2026
    Trusting God with your love life won’t look like culture. It won’t look like your friends. And it definitely won’t look like social media. Comparison will either make you feel behind…or falsely ahead. Neither one is truth. There’s a reason your story is different. And it's personal.
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    6 mins
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