• Why Powerful Women Always Get Called “Diva”
    Apr 30 2026

    A diva isn’t born, she’s labeled. And usually right when she stops behaving. We’re unpacking how a word that once meant goddess became shorthand for “too much,” and why powerful, sexual, opinionated women keep getting recast as problems instead of icons. From 1800s opera stages to anti-Nazi spies, civil rights legends, and the queer community that turned them into coded symbols of survival and rebellion. Because maybe being a diva isn’t the insult we were taught, it’s the whole point.

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    00:00 intro
    02:19 The origin of the term Diva
    08:40 Theatrical stars
    13:16 Dancing divas
    23:09 Bisexual icons
    29:00 Bad rep in hollywood
    38:09 Are you a friend of Dorothy?
    46:16 The difficult woman
    51:52 The civil rights Movement
    1:02:01 Rejection of the diva
    1:04:32 Celebrities as imperfect characters
    1:17:24 The obsession with Cher
    1:21:48 Gender neutral diva


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    1 hr and 27 mins
  • Are Trans Brains Different? The Science Says…
    Apr 16 2026

    Being trans isn’t a trend… but the world sure panicked like it was.
    We’re diving into the science behind the transgender brain, the rise of the “social contagion” theory, and the messy history of sexology that started it all. Let's break down what research actually shows about gender identity and biology (and what it doesn’t), why this question is more dangerous than it seems, and how the answers could be used to both validate and weaponize trans existence. This one gets uncomfortable. Fast.

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    00:00 Intro 02:55 What's causing the trans boom? 10:49 The social contagion is real 19:38 The bioessentialism problem 28:22 Pros of trans brain science 38:21 Polymorphism makes you trans? 51:00 Maybe you're born with it 58:08 Sociology of transness 1:03:43 Inside the trans brain 1:13:33 How do hormones change your brain? 1:31:32 Would you choose it? 1:38:31 Does science undermine the experience?


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    1 hr and 42 mins
  • Most People Are Dating on Autopilot
    Apr 2 2026

    You think your dating choices are yours… but there's invisible rules shaping your sex, love, and identity. However, there is a disruption that queer, kinky, and non-monogamous people are leading, exposing amatonormativity, and the fantasy of desire that isn’t actually yours. To break down how to unlearn, rebuild, and finally choose yourself, we put Feeld’s new Reflections tool to the test; because self-discovery shouldn’t feel like homework. The script stopped working. Now what?

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    00:00 intro
    00:54 Do we make our own choices?
    07:44 The bedroom crossover
    16:54 Subliminal beliefs we hold
    25:50 social rewards and punishments
    34:01 ananormativity
    29:44 grow out if it
    44:49 compulsory heteronormativity
    46:43 can't name it can't claim it
    50:31 finding your true desires
    53:11 scary things that won't kill you
    57:39 are you happy?


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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Why the Church Makes People Kinky
    Mar 26 2026

    The Church might be one of the gayest institutions in history and no one’s talking about it. We’re diving into the hidden queer and kinky world inside religious life. From lesbian nuns to closeted clergy, and how centuries of repression shaped it all. Connecting history, theory, and lived experience to ask: does religion suppress desire, or secretly create it? Because once you see it, you can’t unsee it.

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    00:00 Intro
    00:59 Growin up with gay clergy?
    06:00 Deep in it
    11:45 All priests are gay
    17:19 The nuns are gay too
    21:25 All falling apart
    33:08 The shame is too strong
    40:53 What religion teaches us about sexuality
    48:40 Saying goodbye to Jesus
    53:19 Kink will save us
    1:00:34 Morality is in question
    1:08:02 Religion is Kink in cosplay


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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • The Feminist Strategy Everyone Calls “Man-Hating”
    Feb 26 2026

    Vox crowned 2025 the year of decentering men. But lesbians were doing it first. We’re unpacking whether “man-hating” is a dead-end, a coping mechanism, or a misread of a much older feminist strategy, with Olivia (aka Olisunvia).

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    00:00 Intro
    01:00 Man-hating vs de-centering
    05:39 Choice vs radical feminism
    11:27 the real hate for men
    24:13 Second wave feminism
    34:15 The feminist manifesto
    48:07 Ideal vs reasonable change
    57:29 What's in our best interest?
    1:07:39 Are women healthier without men?


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    1 hr and 20 mins
  • Everyone Thinks They Know What a Stud Is. They’re Wrong
    Feb 12 2026

    Studs aren’t a vibe, they’re a lineage. We’re unpacking the history, politics, and lived reality of Black masculine lesbians at the crossroads of race, gender, and desire. From the swagger and softness, Harlem Renaissance sapphics, stud vs butch, AGs, Stud4Stud discourse, toxic masculinity, and why Black masculinity plays by different rules. Joined by Elisabeth Clarke, Nadine Wiltshire, and Kiké, we dig into stereotypes, erasure, dating myths, and the radical tenderness at the core of stud identity.

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    00:00 What is a stud?
    05:00 The toxic expectations
    12:11 Recreating masculinity
    19:12 It's because you're black
    24:31 Stud on stud clash
    35:03 Who can be a stud?
    1:03:04 Know your stud history
    1:16:04 Black vs white lesbian division
    1:31:21 What can femmes do better?


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    1 hr and 37 mins
  • The Gender Mystery Historians Still Can’t Explain
    Jan 29 2026

    The feral, gender-defiant life of a Canadian WWI veteran who ditched a wealthy upbringing, lived alone in the woods, enlisted three times, fought on the Serbian front as a man, got captured as a prisoner of war, fell in love in a prison camp, and spent decades confusing barbers and bureaucrats alike. We’re queering the Great War, unpacking gender outlaw survival, and asking the spicy question: early non-binary icon or radical dissident woman?

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    00:00 Intro
    01:19 Our hero's early life
    07:27 The radical of it all
    13:52 What was it like for women in 1900s?
    21:00 How did a woman get into war?
    27:54 Enlisting as a man
    36:37 First love interest (as a man?)
    43:43 Actually non-binary?


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    51 mins
  • Stone Top And Pillow Princess: The Lesbian S*x Dynamic People Don’t Understand
    Jan 15 2026

    Stone butch lesbians. Pillow princesses. An erotic dynamic that fits like a deviant little puzzle and has been wildly misunderstood ever since. Syd and Addy give us all the details from their own personal experiences, tackle myths and misconceptions, and get radically honest about desire, boundaries, and sexual alignment.

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    00:00 intro
    00:49 what's a stone top?
    07:41 what's a pillow princess?
    13:33 can straight girls be a pillow princess?
    20:59 myths and misconceptions
    25:33 when it's used as an insult
    30:35 are they asexual?
    34:40 exploring outside the dynamic
    42:34 melt the stone?
    49:04 finding a partner
    51:13 stone butch history
    1:01:05 stone butch blues
    1:08:22 pillow princess history
    1:10:41 all about dating
    1:18:31 is it viewed as negative?


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    1 hr and 25 mins