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We trade recent life updates that somehow include haircuts, sunburn, and multiple near disasters with fire. We also get into a lot of listener questions this week, which include discussion on travel, marriage, health habits, and the real conversations that make parenting feel less scary.

This episode includes:
• weekly catch up with hair changes and family plans
• a streak of grill and yard work mistakes plus what we learn about rushing
• chronically online pop culture moment with Billie Eilish and Justin Bieber
• music discovery habits and how taste evolves in a relationship
• word of the week: futz
• why one mic has a fuzzy cover plus the Canada travel question
• advice on motivating a sedentary partner without taking ownership of their health
• what we talked through before having kids including money and mental health
• a listener note on friendship and being intentional over time
• weather whiplash, AC timing, and Fahrenheit vs Celsius confusion

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We bounce from weird hearing test results and early iPhone nostalgia to a brutally real week of hand, foot, and mouth that is knocking our whole house flat. We also get into Coachella content, the attention economy, Greek life in US colleges, and why a full life makes us all better parents and partners.

Join us this week for:
• talking to ourselves out loud and what that says about us
• hearing tests, speech frequencies, and needing subtitles for life
• mosquito ringtones, old text tones, and tech nostalgia
• first iPhone sightings and the iPod era
• vinyl coming back and the move toward owning music
• hand, foot, and mouth symptoms and how it spreads at home
• a viral meningitis scare and when to take symptoms seriously
• Lake launch details and what we are excited about
• Coachella content categories from friends to brand houses
• influencer ethics, transparency, and backlash in comments
• the attention economy and why outrage drives engagement
• word of the week: withershins
• US college culture and what sororities are really like
• mom guilt, identity, and caregiver burnout

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We bounce from real-life chaos to listener questions, from exploding phone batteries and adult Easter egg hunts to the surprisingly serious role whimsy plays in staying calm. We share practical ways to slow down, make big relationship moves feel fair, and decide when and how to share pregnancy news with the people who matter.

This week we discuss:
• Behind-the-scenes of a season six lake photo shoot and why timing always gets weird
• A swollen phone battery scare and the realities of DIY fixes
• Why adult Easter egg hunts get competitive fast
• The internet thread about “inventing” things that already exist
• Nostalgia, time blindness, and learning to build in buffer time
• Choosing generous interpretations of people without denying reality
• The difference between complaining and making everyone miserable
• A cookie cake confession and other imperfect-parent moments
• Adding whimsy and romanticizing your life in realistic ways
• Moving in together when both partners own a home, including renting and timelines
• When to tell family and friends you’re pregnant and who gets the final say
• Pregnancy and parenting resources, including research-based books and therapy

If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below!

https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod

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Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/