What happens when the life you imagined for your family changes completely? How do you help your kids process grief when you’re grieving too? And where does faith fit into the middle of heartbreak, healing, and rebuilding?

In this honest and hope-filled episode, we sit down with Toni Collier for a vulnerable conversation about divorce, single parenting, recovery, and finding your footing in the church after everything falls apart.

As part of our Parenting Series, this episode explores what it looks like to shepherd kids through loss and transition — from toddlers to preteens — while navigating your own healing journey. Toni shares pieces of her story with remarkable honesty, wisdom, humor, and compassion, reminding listeners that even broken stories can still become beautiful ones.

Together, we talk about:

Helping children process divorce and grief at different developmental stages

How to create emotional safety and stability for your kids during family transition

The realities of single parenting and carrying emotional weight alone

What recovery and rebuilding can actually look like after heartbreak

The complicated experience of returning to church after divorce

Shame, healing, identity, and learning to trust God again

How honesty and vulnerability can become pathways to freedom

Finding hope in the middle of disappointment and unanswered questions

The beauty of letting your kids see healthy healing in real time

This conversation is both tender and practical — full of laughter, tears, hard truths, and encouragement for anyone navigating fractured family dynamics or walking alongside someone who is.

Whether you’re in the middle of divorce, years removed from it, parenting through grief, or simply trying to love your kids well in hard seasons, this episode is a reminder that healing is possible and you are not alone.

About Toni Collier

Toni is a speaker, author, podcast host, and founder of the ministry Broken Crayons Still Color — a movement helping people process brokenness and find hope again. She is also the host of the Still Coloring Podcast, where she shares stories of healing, resilience, and redemption.

She is the co-author of the children’s book Broken Crayons Still Color, which helps kids navigate big emotions and discover beauty and hope even in difficult seasons.

Connect with Toni Collier

Toni Collier Official Website: https://www.tonijcollier.com/

Broken Crayons Still Color Ministry

Still Coloring Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/still-coloring-with-toni-collier/id1627335605?ls=1

Instagram – Toni Collier: https://www.instagram.com/tonijcollier/

Book: Broken Crayons Still Color: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1400242908/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_XTY1F2Q3E88FKQVBCVDV?linkCode=ml1&tag=tonijcollier-20

Discover the vital importance of open conversations about pornography, healing from betrayal, and how to guide your children through a world saturated with explicit content. Greta Eskridge shares her personal journey of redemption, practical advice for parents, and the power of honesty and compassion.

Main Topics Covered:

• Greta Eskridge's story of God's redemption after her husband's confession of an affair and pornography addiction

• The importance of talking to children about pornography proactively, starting as early as age 8

• Practical strategies for initiating age-appropriate conversations about private parts and pornography

• How to identify signs of early exposure and the importance of having ongoing, gentle check-ins

• The science behind pornography's impact on brain development and long-term addiction risks

• Tools and resources for parents, including delaying smartphone use and monitoring apps like Canopy

• Responding compassionately when discovering a child has viewed pornography and fostering trust

• Educating children about the dangers, the harm it causes to relationships, and God's design for sexuality

• How to talk to teenagers about addiction, long-term consequences, and maintaining transparency

• The significance of sharing personal stories to teach resilience and hope

• Resources and ways to connect with Greta Eskridge for support and further information

Timestamps:

• (00:00) Introducing Greta Eskridge and the focus on parental conversations about pornography

• (02:54) Greta shares her story of God's redemption spanning 16 years

• (04:23) Why early conversations equip children better than waiting until exposure

• (13:24) How to start age-appropriate discussions with young children

• (16:23) Explaining pornography simply and constructively to an 8-year-old

• (20:37) How often to revisit conversations about pornography with children

• (23:12) Embracing curiosity and creating safe spaces for questions

• (31:00) Scientific insights into pornography addiction and brain impact

• (34:17) Hidden avenues of exposure: social media, gaming, and books

• (37:10) Essential tools for prevention: parental controls and delaying device access

• (42:54) Success stories of children recognizing and reporting their own exposures

• (44:25) Talking to kids about their own struggles and healing from shame

• (49:16) Greta shares her resources and how to connect with her

Resources & Links:

• Greta Eskridge's Website (https://gretaeskridge.com/)

• Book: It's Time to Talk to Your Kids About Porn (https://amzn.to/4djuE1Y )
• Instagram: Greta Eskridge(https://instagram.com/GretaEskridge)

Connect with Greta Eskridge:

• Instagram (https://instagram.com/GretaEskridge)

• Website (https://gretaeskridge.com/)

We begin our Parenting series with a tribute to Jeff and Jourdan’s mothers. They take the opportunity with Mother’s Day approaching, to honor the women who instilled love and belief into them. They talk about what each meant to themselves and to each other.

Both women held a quiet but confident faith and generously poured love into their children and so many others. This episode is not only a tribute but a call to love simply and fully. Be sure to reach out to the moms and women who have shaped you this Mother’s Day!