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On The Mend

On The Mend

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On The Mend is the podcast where we look back at life’s hardest moments to understand how to move forward, with honesty, heart, and hope. In each episode, Matt Willis explores recovery, resilience, and mental strength through open and honest conversations.


Some episodes feature guests sharing powerful stories of personal transformation. Others bring in expert voices offering practical tools and insights, and in solo episodes, Matt reflects on his own journey through addiction, identity, and healing.


This is a space for anyone navigating life’s challenges. On The Mend is your companion through the highs, lows, and everything in between.

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Episodes
  • Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame
    Jun 8 2026

    TV presenter and broadcaster Ore Oduba joins us for an incredibly raw and unflinchingly honest conversation on pornography addiction, toxic masculinity, and grief.


    Ore opens up about being introduced to explicit material at just nine years old and the devastating "duality" of spending 30 years hiding his addiction while living a highly successful public life.


    This discussion dives deep into how repeated exposure to objectifying content rewires how young men see women, and how that culture feeds directly into the online manosphere. Following the tragic loss of his sister to suicide, Ore shares how he channeled his grief into purpose.


    It's an urgent look at breaking the silence that stops men from seeking help, and the clarity that saved his life: for his children.


    This episode covers the following themes: Addiction, Shame, Toxic Masculinity, Grief, and Recovery.


    Need Support?

    Samaritans: Call 116 123 or visit samaritans.org

    Narcotics Anonymous: na.org

    Alcoholics Anonymous: alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk

    Mental Health Mates: mentalhealthmates.co.uk

    Shout: https: giveusashout.org

    IAPT: https://www.england.nhs.uk/mental-health/adults/nhs-talking-therapies/


    Better Help 👉 Join Matt in Saying It Louder with 10% off Betterhelp Therapy. Click here: https://highpfrmc.com/otm-betterhelp-au


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    AG1 👉Head to drinkag1.com/onthemend to save £20 on your first month, plus a free welcome kit, Vitamin D3 + K2 and five travel packs

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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • The Night John Robins Knew He Had to Quit Drinking
    Jun 1 2026

    Award-winning comedian and broadcaster John Robins tackles the fundamental question: are alcoholics born or made?


    In this episode, John opens up about his 20-year struggle with chronic alcohol use, the childhood signs that hid in plain sight, and why every "moderation spreadsheet" failed until he accepted that one drink was the real problem.


    The conversation moves past the "why" of addiction to focus entirely on the "how" of recovery. John shares the exact moment a podcast changed everything, the reality of rock bottom, and how he uses a toolkit of 12-step meetings, meditation, and running to build new neural pathways. It’s a raw, deeply honest look at the daily practice of sobriety and the liberating truth that you can only ever get one day sober in a day.


    This episode covers the following themes: Addiction, Acceptance, Denial, Moderation, and Recovery.



    John's book Thirst: Twelve Drinks that Changed My Life is out now: https://amzn.eu/d/0ahkSNch


    Need Support?

    Samaritans: Call 116 123 or visit samaritans.org

    Narcotics Anonymous: na.org

    Alcoholics Anonymous: alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk

    Mental Health Mates: mentalhealthmates.co.uk

    Shout: https: giveusashout.org

    IAPT: https://www.england.nhs.uk/mental-health/adults/nhs-talking-therapies/


    Better Help 👉 Join Matt in Saying It Louder with 10% off Betterhelp Therapy. Click here: https://highpfrmc.com/otm-betterhelp-au


    Postcode Lottery 👉 Discover how Postcode Lottery players are Powering Hope Together. Click here to find out more: https://highpfrmc.com/otm-postcode-au


    AG1 👉Head to drinkag1.com/onthemend to save £20 on your first month, plus a free welcome kit, Vitamin D3 + K2 and five travel packs

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    53 mins
  • Matt Haig on Depression, Autism and My Disruptive Past
    May 25 2026

    Matt Willis sits down with the celebrated, bestselling author Matt Haig for a deeply personal conversation on the cost of living without a map. From a life-altering breakdown at 24 to navigating a late-in-life diagnosis of Autism and ADHD, Matt explores how a lack of understanding of his own brain led to decades of exhaustion, masking, and misdirected pain.


    The discussion dives into the realities of mental collapse and the quiet return of addiction. Matt shares why he slipped back into drinking after eight years of sobriety and how his neurodiversity diagnosis finally provided the "why" behind his impulses. It’s a raw look at how addiction often wears different clothes at different ages, serving as a crutch for unmet needs.


    Ultimately, this episode explores the liberation of finally finding the language for your own experience. It’s an essential listen for anyone seeking to move past the stigma of "brokenness" and understand themselves better.


    This episode covers the following themes: Neurodiversity, Identity, Sobriety, Breakdowns, and Resilience.


    Matt Haig's latest novel The Midnight Train is out now: https://amzn.eu/d/0gxsyrqe


    Better Help 👉 Join Matt in Saying It Louder with 10% off Betterhelp Therapy. Click here: https://highpfrmc.com/otm-betterhelp-au


    AG1 👉Head to drinkag1.com/onthemend to save £20 on your first month, plus a free welcome kit, Vitamin D3 + K2 and five travel packs


    Postcode Lottery 👉 Discover how Postcode Lottery players are Powering Hope Together. Click here to find out more: https://highpfrmc.com/otm-postcode-au

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    1 hr and 9 mins
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no one is perfect but we are all doing this recovery thing in the best way we can

So good!

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Loved every episode, it was emotional, an eye opener and I took away a lot from it

Raw and honest

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I love listening to Matts podcast leaning so much from hearing every episode . please could you do one maybe on grift (losing someone ) if not no worries love this podcast.

How honest Matt is x

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This was so honest and from the heart, I smiled, I shed a few tears, my one complaint, it needed to be longer! can't wait for more

Awesome

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Absolutely love this series and can't wait for another one. helped me let go of shame, ego and blaming myself for my mental health struggles. Matt is such a candid and kind presenter and his voice is so relaxing to listen to. All the guests are incredible all giving amazing perspectives and tips. I came away inspired, I cried and I laughed. please please hurry up and do another series!!

incredible!

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