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Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

By: Ruan Willow
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 Human sexuality is the dance of education with pleasure. One cannot exist without the other for full expression. I strive to attend to both realms on this podcast. Oral Stimulation and all the sexy sex-positive stuff! My goals with this podcast are twofold: to provide you an escape to enjoy your sexuality and to improve it with the help of experts. Hi! Welcome to my podcast! I'm a podcaster, spicy romance author of multiple subgenres, and an audiobook narrator. My pen name is Ruan Willow. Listen and enjoy as I narrate sexy titillating yummy and spicy erotic romance stories. I talk about sex and relationships with experts and sexperts. Chats focus on things to improve your sex life, including advice, tips, and lots of hot spicy fiction. I'm sharing ideas to empower you, enhance your relationships and intimacy, your love life, and ideas for making romance bloom in your life. I also interview authors to celebrate them and introduce you to new writers in the spicy/erotic fiction genre. This podcast is about celebrating sexuality and all things sex-positive, I care about your sexual health, both solo and with a partner(s)! Are you ready? Get ready. Let's do it ...Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow...let's go! 18+only. NSFW. Copyright 2021-2025 All Rights Reserved Pink Infinity Publishing LLC Ruan Willow Music Heatseeker JB Good. This podcast show is not responsible for any violations of laws in states or countries where listeners of this podcast live where this content is prohibited.© 2025 Ruan Willow Pink Infinity Publishing LLC and Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Hygiene & Healthy Living
Episodes
  • Reigniting Passion: "The Sure Thing" Practice for an Optimal Sex Life with Guide Elana Auerbach

    Reigniting Passion: "The Sure Thing" Practice for an Optimal Sex Life with Guide Elana Auerbach
    May 1 2026
    Season 6, Episode 739: Reigniting Passion: "The Sure Thing" Practice for an Optimal Sex Life with sensuality guide and educator Elana Auerbach. Guest Bio: Elana is a lover, mother, author, mentor, activator, and priestess. While Elana has a wealth of professional experience guiding people deeper into their bodies and their pleasure, The Sure Thing comes directly from her personal life. After years of frustration and failed gimmicks to try to re-spark the passion in her 20-year marriage, Elana created The Sure Thing. She wrote this book because she wants everyone to have access to this life altering practice. Website: https://surethingexperiment.com/ FB: facebook.com/ElanaAuerbachAuthor IG: https://www.instagram.com/elana.auerbach/ A guided journey to connect with your wild, sensual self, your passion, and desire! https://guide.surethingexperiment.com/wild-sensual-self Get the book "The Sure Thing: A Pleasure Practice to Revive the Spark" (affiliate link): https://amzn.to/4ugZIpY Get Ruan Willow's new dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views" for only $0.99 (for a limited time only) universal link https://mybook.to/beachhouseviews ⁠Support the show and get exclusive content⁠ Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters ⁠https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://offers.feeliate.com/to92wTJh Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 ⁠⁠https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow⁠⁠ Ruan's book Beach House Views https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook directly from Ruan https://payhip.com/b/pMxn3 Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing LLC. All Rights Reserved. Discussion Topics: From Passion to Purpose: Reclaiming Intimacy Rekindling Intimacy Through Shabbat Rituals Reviving Intimacy Through Weekly Commitment Writing a Book About Reviving Intimacy Addressing Jealousy in Long-Distance Relationships Understanding Your Inner Pantheon and Self-Awareness Building a Weekly Pleasure Practice Habit Menopause, Body Changes, and Reclaiming Pleasure Sexuality and Confidence Growing With Age Scheduling Intimacy: Building Connection Together Building Your "I Know What I Want" Muscle Sex as Duty vs. Personal Pleasure Unlocking Creative Flow Through Sensuality Exploring Your Body and Sexual Pleasure Exploring Diverse Gemstone Toys and Designs Vivacious Viv: Reclaiming My Wild Self Women Breaking Free from Societal Roles The Sure Thing Love Experiment Connect Through Events and Online Community Key Takeaways: Responsive desire, which develops through safe and present connection, is completely valid. • A scheduled "sure thing" can dissolve years of emotional buildup in weeks, consistency matters more than spontaneity for reconnecting in long-term relationships. • Intimacy is a learnable skill requiring regular practice, not something that should be left to chance or assumed to naturally flourish after decades together. • Menopause marks a transition to continued vitality, not decline, reframing aging as an opportunity rather than loss is key to maintaining desire and self-worth.
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    56 mins
  • Bisexual MILF and Model LaLa Tada Mattress Actress, Swinging, and Life as a Mom, and Pet Owner

    Bisexual MILF and Model LaLa Tada Mattress Actress, Swinging, and Life as a Mom, and Pet Owner
    Apr 30 2026

    Season 6, Episode 738: Replay to bring the video version to podcast audiences. Bisexual MILF and Model LaLa Tada Mattress Actress, Swinging, and Life, career, her Psychology and Healthcare Degree, Lactation consulting, family, and pets. She has a hairless cat!

    Listen to the fun and intriguing conversation with LaLa Tada as she shares her unique journey into the adult film industry and the swinger lifestyle. Discover how LaLa's path, filled with twists and turns, led her to embrace her true self and find empowerment in her career and personal life.

    LaLa Tada opens up about her beginnings in the adult industry, her experiences with OnlyFans, and how she balances her professional life with her family. She candidly discusses the acceptance of her work in Las Vegas versus other parts of the country, and how her psychology degree influences her parenting style.

    Explore the dynamics of Lala's relationships, her adventures in the swinger lifestyle, and the importance of setting boundaries. Learn about the various fetishes she's explored, including pee and fart fetishes, and how she navigates the challenges and joys of her career in the adult film industry.

    Don't miss this enlightening and empowering conversation that celebrates sexuality, personal freedom, and the journey to self-discovery. Video version https://youtu.be/7wzP2ps_ftU

    - 02:07 - How did you end up where you are today?
    - 07:11 - I am a Board Certified Lactation Consultant
    - 09:00 - Do you like what you're doing?
    - 09:53 - Do you feel like living in Vegas it's a little bit more acceptable
    - 13:44 - Do your kids know what you do or do you hide it
    - 17:54 - Your psychology degree colors how you interact
    - 18:29 - So does your husband still like to shoot stuff with you
    - 22:09 - Do you like the label of milf?
    - 26:11 - Where do you see yourself going in the future
    - 29:36 - Do you have certain people that you frequently work
    - 34:05 - Pee is sterile, right? If it wasn't, you'd have bladder infection
    - 35:52 - What other fetishes have you done
    - 40:13 - You've done photo shoots with rope
    - 40:39 - Would you be willing to talk about your experiences in the lifestyle
    - 43:48 - How do you generally find people?
    - 46:35 - Do you really have a hairless cat? Yes, I do and other pets
    - 52:57 - The rabbits have modified their burrow to stay warm in all weather
    LaLa Tada's website at https://www.lalatada.com/

    Quotes from Lala Tad Da:
    "My journey, like I always say, was not linear by any means. There's all kinds of twists and turns and ups and downs."
    "I get to express myself in ways that I feel like I wasn't able to prior to, like, you know, deciding to go all out with this."
    "I'm 41. I don't mind sharing my age. I celebrate it."

    Quote from Ruan Willow:
    "I bet your kids are growing up without shame about sexuality and I think that is just huge."

    Podcast Host Ruan Willow's Books:
    http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/

    Holiday Smut Audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesmuttylittleholidayaudiobook
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    58 mins
  • Dani Synclair, Adult Performer, on BDSM, Fetishes, and the Freedom of Self Expression

    Dani Synclair, Adult Performer, on BDSM, Fetishes, and the Freedom of Self Expression
    Apr 28 2026

    This video was previously aired as an audio, it is being replayed to broadcast the video version.

    Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow podcast, season 6, Episode 737: A deep dive into the alluring world of BDSM relationships, impact play, and adult content creation with the enchanting Dani Synclair. Standing tall at 5'9", this ebony pro switch and OnlyFans siren shares her journey from personal exploration to professional success in the realm of kink. Discover how a simple foot fetish led Dani to embrace her desires and transform them into a fulfilling career.

    Connect with Dani: Instagram at danisynclair.xo

    Twitter/X at DaniSynclair

    In this episode, Dani opens up about her experiences in the dungeon, the connections she forms with clients, and the fascinating stories behind their fetishes. From the psychological aspects of kink to the importance of communication and consent, Dani reveals the intricate dynamics that make up her world. Learn about the various kinks she enjoys, her creative process for content creation, and how she navigates the complexities of being a public figure in the adult industry. With a focus on self-care, mental well-being, mental health, and sexual health, Dani emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own boundaries and desires. Whether you're curious about BDSM, an aspiring content creator, or simply interested in the stories that shape our intimate lives, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration. Tune in for an unforgettable conversation that celebrates the beauty of self-expression and connection.

    Quotes from Dani from the interview: "The most enjoyable part is meeting people, whether it's clients or other creators in the industry."

    "It's like a whole mental thing where it's not just the feeling of getting spanked." "Once your face is out there, you can't get rid of it. It is there forever."

    Timeline: 00:00 - Ruan Willow introduces Dani Synclair, a professional BDSM switch 02:55 - Do you find most people have like, a story that led to the fetish?

    06:32 - Talk a little bit about the dungeon that you go to

    10:04 - Now what kind of kinks do you engage in there

    15:56 - If someone asked you what you like about spanking, what would you say

    21:45 - How did you become involved in Impact play at such a young age

    27:48 - I'm very claustrophobic, so that sounds very terrifying to me

    31:00 - Do you do filming too? Yes. So I do the whole content creation

    36:00 - Now is this when you first started doing this kind of thing

    37:58 - Do you prefer one over the other? Doing the videos versus the live events

    41:42 - Do you get a lot of piracy or do you just have no idea

    44:07 - Do you have any regrets of what you've done so far 46:48 - Do you do a lot of editing yourself? Yeah, I do

    48:42 - The future

    50:07 - When you're traveling it's literally just for work

    52:56 - How do you get your brain ready for a scene before you do it

    Clip from the end of the episode: Servicing the Workmen audiobook at https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventuresaudiobook In ebook and paperback https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures

    New book, dark romance, thriller, suspense, stalker, lots of sex and erotic spicy storytelling, Beach House Views, now only $0.99 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook
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    1 hr and 7 mins
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