In this episode, we explore the reality of workplace bullying through the lived experience of Teresa, who describes enduring it multiple times across her career. Teresa explains how subtle behaviours escalated into constant criticism, isolation, micromanagement, and emotional pressure that followed her home and consumed her life.

From being undermined by a colleague‑turned‑manager to navigating grief under a boss who dismissed her vulnerability, Teresa’s personal account reveals how bullying can erode confidence, distort self‑belief, and turn a job once loved into something she dreaded.

In Teresa’s words, this is her unfiltered journey of how persistent mistreatment can suffocate even the strongest people - and how long it can take to recover.

Before we begin, a gentle but important message. Across this podcast, we sometimes discuss experiences that may be difficult to hear, including themes that centre around trauma. These conversations are handled with care, but they can still be triggering or emotionally heavy. Please listen in a way that feels safe for you and take a pause or step away at any time if you need to. If anything you hear brings up difficult feelings, reaching out to someone you trust or seeking professional support can make a real difference.

We are a peer-connection space focused on shared storytelling, not a medical service or crisis centre. If you are in immediate need, we recommend reaching out to professional emergency services.

Topics
Workplace bullying definition and types
Teresa's personal experiences with bullying
Impact of bullying on mental health and self-esteem
Strategies for documenting and confronting bullying
The role of HR and union support in addressing bullying
The importance of record-keeping and evidence gathering
Advice for victims on protecting themselves and seeking help

Chapters
00:00 Understanding Workplace Bullying
07:19 Personal Experiences of Bullying
12:19 The Impact of Bullying on Mental Health
20:01 Navigating Workplace Dynamics
27:39 Confronting the Bully
28:57 Recognising the Signs of Bullying
29:20 The Impact of Bullying on Mental Health
33:13 Confronting Workplace Dynamics
37:10 The Role of HR and Unions
45:43 Documenting Evidence Against Bullying
52:25 Finding Strength and Moving Forward

Resources
Union Support and Advice - https://www.unions.org
Workplace Bullying Guide by ACAS - https://https://www.acas.org.uk/bullying-at-work
Mental Health Resources - https://www.mind.org.uk

Keywords
Workplace bullying, mental health, self-esteem, HR, workplace harassment, coping strategies, professional boundaries, Bullying, Bullies

Disclaimer
The views, experiences, and opinions shared in this episode belong solely to the guest. They reflect their personal perspective and recollection of events. Nothing discussed should be taken as a statement of fact about any named or identifiable individual, organisation, or workplace. As host, I provide a space for open conversation but do not verify, investigate, or take responsibility for the accuracy of what is shared. This episode is intended for discussion and reflection only.

We are a peer-connection space focused on shared storytelling, not a medical service or crisis centre. If you are in immediate need, we recommend reaching out to professional emergency services.

Clarke Carlisle shares his deeply personal journey through mental health struggles, addiction, suicidal crisis, and recovery, offering invaluable insights into self‑awareness, honesty, and resilience. From his years at Blackpool, QPR, Leeds, Watford and Burnley, and his England U21 appearances, to the role he holds today, this candid conversation explores the impact of childhood labels, societal conditioning, and the power of authentic self‑acceptance.

Clarke also reflects on the years he spent performing behind a public identity while privately unravelling, and what it took to finally speak with honesty about his inner world. His clarity around self‑talk, shame, and the stories we inherit offers a rare window into how a person rebuilds from the inside out - not through perfection, but through truth, connection, and the courage to be fully seen.

Before we begin, a gentle but important message. Across this podcast, we sometimes discuss experiences that may be difficult to hear, including themes that centre around trauma. These conversations are handled with care, but they can still be triggering or emotionally heavy. Please listen in a way that feels safe for you and take a pause or step away at any time if you need to. If anything you hear brings up difficult feelings, reaching out to someone you trust or seeking professional support can make a real difference.

We are a peer-connection space focused on shared storytelling, not a medical service or crisis centre. If you are in immediate need, we recommend reaching out to professional emergency services.

Topics
Childhood conditioning and labels
Impact of societal and generational influences
The role of honesty and self-awareness in recovery
The cycle of self-sabotage and addiction
The importance of professional mental health support
Strategies for managing negative self-talk and inner critic
The significance of authentic self-acceptance and vulnerability
The role of hope and resilience in overcoming mental health challenges
The importance of community and support systems
Practical tools for mental health and emotional regulation

Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Clarke Carlisle's Journey
02:39 The Impact of Labels and Childhood Conditioning
05:31 Navigating Self-Sabotage and Alcohol
08:57 Understanding Agency and Responsibility
11:47 The Complexity of Self-Identity
14:38 The Role of Societal Conditioning
17:01 The Dissonance of Actions and Values
20:10 The Struggle with Self-Worth
23:24 Mental Health and the Journey to Recovery
42:37 The Weight of Worthlessness
51:00 The Path to Hope and Healing
01:00:25 The Power of Self-Talk and Honesty
01:12:26 Breaking the Silence on Suicidal Ideation

Resources
Mind - National Crisis Line - https://www.mind.org.uk
Cognitive Analytical Therapy - https://www.nhs.uk/tests-and-treatments/talking-therapies/
Samaritans - https://www.samaritans.org
Shout Crisis Text Line - https://giveusashout.org
Clarke Carlisle: LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/clarkejamescarlisle/

Keywords
Mental health, addiction, self-awareness, recovery, resilience, childhood labels, societal conditioning, honesty, mental health support, personal growth, Premiership, footballer, football

We are a peer-connection space focused on shared storytelling, not a medical service or crisis centre. If you are in immediate need, we recommend reaching out to professional emergency services.

Hanna bravely shares her deeply personal journey of recovery from alcohol addiction, highlighting the emotional, psychological, and social challenges she faced and how she transformed her life through recovery.

Hanna especially reflects on lockdown and discusses her breaking points when she realised her drinking was affecting her ability to care for her son. This episode offers valuable insights for anyone struggling with addiction or seeking self-improvement.

Through her story, Hanna also discusses the role of self-sabotage, and the importance of support systems in recovery. This poignant, honest, and frank conversation conveys struggles of self-identity, the importance of accountability and support, and how Hanna's environment and relationships have changed positively since becoming sober.

Before we begin, a gentle but important message. Across this podcast, we sometimes discuss experiences that may be difficult to hear, including themes that centre around trauma. These conversations are handled with care, but they can still be triggering or emotionally heavy. Please listen in a way that feels safe for you and take a pause or step away at any time if you need to. If anything you hear brings up difficult feelings, reaching out to someone you trust or seeking professional support can make a real difference.

We are a peer-connection space focused on shared storytelling, not a medical service or crisis centre. If you are in immediate need, we recommend reaching out to professional emergency services.

Topics:
Hanna's early relationship with alcohol and family influences
The impact of lockdown and isolation on drinking habits
The moment of hitting rock bottom and its emotional toll
The role of mental health and past trauma in addiction
The process of recovery and the importance of community support
Changing social environments and relationships post-sobriety
The mental battle of addiction and daily management
The positive changes and new life opportunities after sobriety

Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Hanna's background
00:59 Starting the journey: early relationship with alcohol
01:59 Family influences and first drinking experiences
03:20 Realisation of problematic drinking patterns
07:28 Impact of lockdown and isolation on drinking
10:34 The night of crisis and hitting rock bottom
14:34 The wake-up call: risking losing her son
18:50 Physical and emotional toll of alcohol
22:17 Breaking free: the decision to stop drinking
28:21 The mental battle and daily management of sobriety
33:08 The transformation and new life opportunities
46:35 The joy and freedom of sobriety
58:36 Advice for those struggling and the importance of support

Resources
Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) - https://www.aa.org/
NHS - https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/alcohol-use-disorder/
Drink Aware - https://www.drinkaware.co.uk/alcohol-support-service-finder/

Keywords
Sobriety, recovery, alcohol addiction, mental health, personal journey, self-sabotage, lockdown impact, parenting, emotional struggles, support systems sobriety, alcoholism, recovery, mental health, support, accountability, relationships, transformation, self-improvement, addiction

We are a peer-connection space focused on shared storytelling, not a medical service or crisis centre. If you are in immediate need, we recommend reaching out to professional emergency services.