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Husband Material

Husband Material

By: Drew Boa
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Summary

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

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Episodes
  • Promised Land Sexuality (Sermon on Deuteronomy 11:10-12)
    May 4 2026

    Discover the differences between "Egypt Sexuality" and "Promised Land Sexuality" based on insights from Deuteronomy 11:10-12. You'll be challenged to trust God with your life instead of trying to control your life.

    This sermon was originally preached on Sunday, April 26, 2026 at the Husband Material Spring Retreat in Georgia. See upcoming retreats at husbandmaterial.com/retreat

    Previous sermons from HM Retreats:

    • You Are Not Too Much (Mark 6:30-56)
    • Excluded & Emasculated (Acts 8:26-40)
    • David's Sexual Story (2 Samuel 11-12)
    • The Beauty Of Brotherhood (Psalm 133)
    • How Jesus Reverses The Curse (John 21)

    Coming up on Saturday, May 30, 2026:
    The Same-Sex Connection™ Conference
    Register now at samesexconnection.com

    Support the show


    Take the Husband Material Journey...

    • Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
    • Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
    • Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
    • Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

    Thanks for listening!

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    35 mins
  • How To Outgrow Porn Through IFS (with Patrick Cagle)
    Apr 28 2026

    Have you ever felt curious or confused about IFS (Internal Family Systems) and how it can help you outgrow porn? Patrick Cagle offers the perfect introduction: the 3 types of parts within you, the 9 Cs of your authentic self, and the highly practical 6 Fs to connect with a part of you that feels activated, triggered, or sexually tempted.

    Patrick Cagle is an IFS Level 2–trained therapist, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) candidate, and a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (PSAP). Based in Alabama, he serves as an associate-level counselor devoted to helping individuals find freedom from unwanted sexual behaviors and supporting partners healing from betrayal trauma.

    With compassion, clarity, and a deep respect for each client’s inner world, Patrick integrates Internal Family Systems (IFS) to uncover and heal the underlying wounds that drive addiction. His approach helps clients move beyond shame, restore connection with their authentic self, and experience lasting recovery and transformation.

    Connect with Patrick at (334) 602-4112.

    Check out Patrick's Psychology Today Profile here.

    Join Patrick's drop-in discussion group: "Men's Internal Family Systems & Sexual Integrity" on Tuesdays at 10:00 AM Pacific Time here.

    Mentioned in this episode:

    • The 9 C's of IFS (credit to Cece Sykes)
    • The 6 F's of IFS by Dr. Richard Schwartz
    • The SIBAM Model by Dr. Peter Levine

    Coming up on Saturday, May 30, 2026:
    The Same-Sex Connection™ Conference
    Register now at samesexconnection.com

    Support the show


    Take the Husband Material Journey...

    • Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
    • Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
    • Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
    • Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

    Thanks for listening!

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    38 mins
  • How To Stop Fighting Yourself (with Jenna Riemersma)
    Apr 20 2026

    Are you tired of fighting a battle against yourself? Jenna Riemersma offers a remarkably powerful path to healing through the "Move Toward" approach, her simplified version of IFS (Internal Family Systems). You'll learn a practical three-step tool to transform unwanted behavior and outgrow porn through curiosity and compassion.

    Jenna Riemersma, LPC, is a leading authority in integrating Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy with Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder (CSBD) and betrayal trauma treatment. As a Certified IFS Therapist, IFS Clinical Consultant, IITAP teaching faculty, and CSAT Supervisor, she brings over a decade of specialized expertise to this critical therapeutic intersection. Jenna is also the developer of the innovative "Move Toward" IFS shorthand tool—a practical resource that helps therapists and clients efficiently access IFS parts work. Learn more at movetoward.com

    Buy Jenna's new book:

    • Move Toward: A Simplified IFS Therapy Tool to Welcome All Parts of You

    Jenna is also the author of:

    • Altogether You: Experiencing Personal and Spiritual Transformation with Internal Family Systems Therapy
    • IFS Integration: A Comprehensive Guide to

    Coming up on Saturday, May 30, 2026:
    The Same-Sex Connection™ Conference
    Register now at samesexconnection.com

    Support the show


    Take the Husband Material Journey...

    • Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
    • Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
    • Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
    • Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

    Thanks for listening!

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    46 mins
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