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He Said, She Said

He Said, She Said

By: Staying Relevant Productions
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Louise Thompson and Ryan Libbey are entering their most open chapter yet…


He Said, She Said brings listeners into honest, unfiltered conversations about life as partners, parents and individuals, including a new fertility journey they’ve chosen to share.


From relationships to parenting and the realities of growing a family, Louise and Ryan explore the big stuff with openness and vulnerability, balanced by lighter moments from everyday family life.


New episodes every Wednesday. Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, or wherever you get your podcasts. Plus watch on YouTube from 5pm!


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Episodes
  • Sam & Karen Thompson on MIC Drama, Heated Arguments & an Overdue Apology...
    Apr 7 2026

    It’s a full Thompson takeover this week, with Sam and mum Karen joining Louise.


    We get into teenage Louise… and it’s more chaotic than anyone remembers. This sparks a few long-overdue apologies from Louise, and some honesty about their family dynamic now. But it doesn’t stop there. Louise has something she’s been holding onto, and it opens up a conversation they’ve never had before as she asks for an apology of her own...


    We also had to talk Made in Chelsea… with Karen’s reaction to them joining, plus her take on one of their most heated arguments. And of course, your questions: Sam as an uncle, the “favourite child” debate, and Sam as an uncle...Is he as good as Louise expected?


    00:00 Team Thompson Episode Begins

    02:02 Did Sam know he would be Louise's boss?

    03:45 Sam’s university rejection story

    08:56 Who was the better behaved child?

    10:00 Sam reveals how Louise was as a teenager

    16:00 Louise apologises to Sam and Karen

    22:13 Sam’s apology to Louise never talked about before

    30:00 How real is Made in Chelsea?

    32:25 Karen watches MAFS!

    33:10 Karen’s views on Sam and Louise joining MIC

    35:35 Watching Sam and Louise’s most heated MIC clip

    39:15 Reflections on doing reality TV

    42:00 Surprise from Karen leaves her in tears…

    43:30 How Sam’s neurodivergence affects his dating life

    47:35 Who is the favourite child?

    48:25 Louise’s opinion on Sam’s glow-up

    52:42 Who fancies Pete more?

    55:15 Is Sam as good an uncle as Louise thought?

    59:00 The Karen debate!


    🗓 New episodes every Wednesday


    📩 We’ve got a NEW email!

    Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.

    We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.


    🩵 Follow us everywhere

    Instagram | TikTok | Youtube @hesaid.shesaid.podcast


    And of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review.

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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • The Moment Louise Nearly Broke Her Five Year Sobriety
    Mar 31 2026

    Louise and Ryan are back from Antigua and they have some BIG news…👀 After two years, Louise finally found her missing engagement ring. Which raises the question… is marriage finally on the cards?


    They also debrief the trip, from both Leo and Big Mike’s testing moments to Louise almost breaking her sobriety, there’s a lot to unpack. They talk about managing their IVF journey while away, and how it shifted their whole approach to the holiday. It also opens up a conversation about how holidays look different now they’re parents, which leads to an unexpected debate… should pubs be allowed to ban kids?


    And with marriage back in the mix, they get into prenups. Practical or unromantic? And is it something they’d actually consider…they get into a little role play to figure out what they really think!


    00:00 We finally found our engagement ring!

    09:10 Looking back on our Antigua trip

    13:05 How holidays change when you have a child

    17:00 Top tips for travelling with a child

    20:25 Should children be allowed in pubs?

    24:15 The moment Louise nearly broke her sobriety

    34:50 How IVF reshaped our holiday experience

    38:55 Letting go of beauty standards on holiday

    42:00 Would we ever get a prenup?

    47:15 Hypothetical cheating role-play


    🗓 New episodes every Wednesday


    📩 We’ve got a NEW email!

    Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.

    We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.


    🩵 Follow us everywhere

    Instagram | TikTok | Youtube @hesaid.shesaid.podcast


    And of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    53 mins
  • The REAL Reason We’re Not Married Yet…
    Mar 25 2026

    Happy Birthday Louise!!! 🥳


    Of course, as it’s her birthday we had a few surprises planned… starting with Ryan transforming into Louise’s “ideal man.” Or at least, that was the plan. Let’s just say it didn’t exactly go the way we expected.


    We also get into why Louise actually HATES her birthday, and the deeper reason behind it. That conversation takes an unexpected turn, leading to a very honest reveal about why Louise and Ryan still aren’t married… even after being engaged for eight years. This also opens up Ryan’s biggest regret from his proposal.


    Things get even more emotional as he shares a series of surprise gifts that leave Louise laughing, and a little teary.


    And just when she thinks it’s over, there’s one final surprise… a very special guest crashes the recording to wish Louise a happy birthday. You’ll have to listen to the end to find out who.


    00:00 Ryan dresses up to surprise Louise!

    00:41 Why Louise hates her birthday

    06:03 Louise’s Childhood Birthday Experiences

    10:05 The Root of Birthday Discomfort

    12:18 Why we aren’t married yet?!

    15:57 Louise’s ideal Birthday

    18:38 Ryan’s Shocking Engagement Revelation

    22:41 Louise’s best birthday feeling

    25:03 Dream Birthday Scenario

    29:06 Birthday Present Surprises

    32:10 A Decade of Birthdays Journey Together

    41:28 Advice to Younger Selves

    45:28 Mystery guest surprise revealed!


    🗓 New episodes every Wednesday


    📩 We’ve got a NEW email!

    Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.

    We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.


    🩵 Follow us everywhere

    Instagram | TikTok | Youtube @hesaid.shesaid.podcast


    And of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    48 mins
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