This week on God is Laughing at Us, Anthony is joined by his favorite returning guest—his wife, Jessica Heath—to talk about the beautiful, messy, and often hilarious reality of doing life together.

If you're still holding onto a superficial checklist for love, this episode is going to challenge you. We’re breaking down:

• The Myth of the List: Jessica shares her journey of surrendering her “perfect partner” requirements to make room for a richer, God-written love story.

• Flipping the Script: Anthony discusses how our expectations rarely match reality, and why God's plans always end up better than our own.

• The Spiritual Mirror: Why marriage will expose your unhealed areas, and how to use that inevitable friction to grow rather than break.

Expect transparency, a few laughs, and plenty of biblical wisdom on navigating relationships with genuine grace and honesty.

Let’s just start here: life’s been lifing. When everything hits you from every direction, it’s incredibly easy to slip into full "Martha mode" and just try to manage the chaos. But when the dust finally settled for me recently, I had to admit something—the closeness I usually feel with God had quietly slipped away.

It made me think of that classic Commissioned track, I Am Here. I realized I was essentially insisting on loving Him from a distance. The truth is, God didn't change His location; my own busyness was just creating resistance.

Join me for an honest conversation on how simple praise is the ultimate pattern-interrupt for an anxious mind. It’s how we get out of our own heads, drop the resistance, and just draw near again.

In this episode, Anthony shares a real moment when God checked his attitude and his attention. After being led to stop wearing earrings, Anthony got irritated seeing a pastor on Instagram wearing one and quickly got reminded: that ain’t got nothing to do with you, bro. With John 21:22 and Galatians 6:4–5 in view, this episode is about comparison, personal conviction, and staying focused on the standard God called you to instead of getting distracted by somebody else’s lane.