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From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer

From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer

By: Geoff & Jody Steurer
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 Healing does not end at crisis. It leads to connection with yourself and the people you love. Join therapist and author Geoff Steurer and his wife Jody as they explore how couples repair and stay connected.© 2026 From Crisis to Connection Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Social Sciences
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  • It Wasn't About the Sex

    It Wasn't About the Sex
    Apr 23 2026
    One of the most painful questions betrayed partners carry is this: Was I not enough? Many wonder whether being more available, more attractive, or more willing could have prevented the betrayal. In this episode, we challenge that belief directly and unpack why sexual betrayal is not actually about sex, even though the behaviors themselves were sexual. We explore how this myth keeps betrayed partners trapped in damaging comparisons and unnecessary self blame, while also allowing recovering partners to avoid looking at the deeper drivers behind their behavior. When couples focus only on improving their sex life, they can miss the real work required for healing, accountability, and rebuilding trust. This conversation helps clarify what truly drives sexual betrayal, why comparison is such a painful dead end, and how couples can shift their focus away from performance and toward the deeper emotional and relational work that supports lasting recovery. __________________________________ Download the Free Video Resource: Rekindle Romance After Betrayal Romance doesn’t come back through pressure or pretending everything is fine. It returns when safety is rebuilt slowly and intentionally. When your nervous system begins to calm, connection becomes possible again. This training will help you understand what needs to happen first – so you’re not trying to rebuild intimacy on a broken foundation. Get your copy here. ______________________________ Download the Free Resource: You, Me, Us - A Way Forward After Betrayal When betrayal has shaken your relationship, it can feel impossible to know where to begin. This free 15-minute video and companion worksheet will help you steady yourself, support your partner, and begin caring for the relationship between you. Get your copy here. ______________________________ Join the Courageous Together™ Program Courageous Together™ isn’t just another course, it’s a trauma-informed roadmap that holds both of you in the healing process. If you’ve ever wondered “Where do we even start?” After betrayal, this program gives you the clarity and structure you need. It meets the betrayed partner’s need for safety while guiding the recovering partner toward real accountability, creating a path forward that neither of you has to figure out on your own. Healing from betrayal is overwhelming in isolation, which is why Courageous Together™ brings you expert guidance, practical tools, and a supportive community of couples walking the same road. Inside, you’ll find a step-by-step framework, live support opportunities, and the reassurance that you’re not alone as you rebuild safety, restore trust, and move toward genuine connection. You’ll have access to: A structured healing framework with step-by-step guidanceVideo lessons and worksheets to build safety, accountability, and connectionThe option to join live group circles and support calls with meA private, secure community of others walking the same path Learn more and join us inside Courageous Together ______________________________ Stay Connected WebsiteYouTubeInstagramFacebook If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who might need it. And don’t forget to leave a review! We’d love to hear how this podcast is supporting your healing journey. __________________________________ Watch on YouTube Prefer video? You can watch full episodes of From Crisis to Connection on our YouTube channel __________________________________ About Geoff Steurer I am a licensed marriage and family therapist and Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS) with 25+ years of experience helping individuals and couples heal from the devastation of sexual betrayal and broken trust. I am the founder of the Courageous Together program, co-host of the From Crisis to Connection podcast, and co-author of Love You, Hate the Porn. My work integrates trauma-informed care, attachment theory, and practical tools for creating lasting safety and connection. I’ve been married to my wife, Jody, since 1996 and we are the parents of four children. About Jody Steurer Jody is the co-host of the From Crisis to Connection podcast, where she brings her thoughtful, common-sense perspective to conversations about healing, trust, and connection. She earned her bachelor’s degree in psychology from Brigham Young University and is an ACA-certified coach. Jody has years of experience in corporate training, small business leadership, and family life, and raising four children (two of them neurodivergent). She loves watercolor painting, landscape design, spending time outdoors, and snow skiing.
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    29 mins
  • "I Stopped. Why Isn't That Enough?"

    "I Stopped. Why Isn't That Enough?"
    Apr 9 2026
    You stopped the behavior. You told the truth. You started doing the work. So why does your partner still hurt? Why does the mistrust remain? And why does it sometimes feel like nothing you do will ever be enough? In this episode, we explore a belief that quietly creates distance in many relationships: the idea that once you’ve done certain things, healing should be finished. While that belief may feel reasonable, it often leads to subtle pressure, discouragement, and deeper disconnection. We talk about how healing after betrayal does not follow a predictable timeline, why pressure to “move on” can silence betrayed partners, and how couples can unintentionally settle into patterns that feel stable but lack real intimacy. You’ll also hear how long term healing depends on keeping conversations open, even when it’s uncomfortable, and how true progress happens when both partners stay engaged with each other’s inner world instead of managing distance. __________________________________ Download the Free Video Resource: Rekindle Romance After Betrayal Romance doesn’t come back through pressure or pretending everything is fine. It returns when safety is rebuilt slowly and intentionally. When your nervous system begins to calm, connection becomes possible again. This training will help you understand what needs to happen first – so you’re not trying to rebuild intimacy on a broken foundation. Get your copy here. ______________________________ Download the Free Resource: You, Me, Us - A Way Forward After Betrayal When betrayal has shaken your relationship, it can feel impossible to know where to begin. This free 15-minute video and companion worksheet will help you steady yourself, support your partner, and begin caring for the relationship between you. Get your copy here. ______________________________ Join the Courageous Together™ Program Courageous Together™ isn’t just another course, it’s a trauma-informed roadmap that holds both of you in the healing process. If you’ve ever wondered “Where do we even start?” After betrayal, this program gives you the clarity and structure you need. It meets the betrayed partner’s need for safety while guiding the recovering partner toward real accountability, creating a path forward that neither of you has to figure out on your own. Healing from betrayal is overwhelming in isolation, which is why Courageous Together™ brings you expert guidance, practical tools, and a supportive community of couples walking the same road. Inside, you’ll find a step-by-step framework, live support opportunities, and the reassurance that you’re not alone as you rebuild safety, restore trust, and move toward genuine connection. You’ll have access to: A structured healing framework with step-by-step guidanceVideo lessons and worksheets to build safety, accountability, and connectionThe option to join live group circles and support calls with meA private, secure community of others walking the same path Learn more and join us inside Courageous Together ______________________________ Stay Connected WebsiteYouTubeInstagramFacebook If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who might need it. And don’t forget to leave a review! We’d love to hear how this podcast is supporting your healing journey. __________________________________ Watch on YouTube Prefer video? You can watch full episodes of From Crisis to Connection on our YouTube channel __________________________________ About Geoff Steurer I am a licensed marriage and family therapist and Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS) with 25+ years of experience helping individuals and couples heal from the devastation of sexual betrayal and broken trust. I am the founder of the Courageous Together program, co-host of the From Crisis to Connection podcast, and co-author of Love You, Hate the Porn. My work integrates trauma-informed care, attachment theory, and practical tools for creating lasting safety and connection. I’ve been married to my wife, Jody, since 1996 and we are the parents of four children. About Jody Steurer Jody is the co-host of the From Crisis to Connection podcast, where she brings her thoughtful, common-sense perspective to conversations about healing, trust, and connection. She earned her bachelor’s degree in psychology from Brigham Young University and is an ACA-certified coach. Jody has years of experience in corporate training, small business leadership, and family life, and raising four children (two of them neurodivergent). She loves watercolor painting, landscape design, spending time outdoors, and snow skiing.
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    27 mins
  • Stop Listening to Everyone

    Stop Listening to Everyone
    Apr 2 2026
    When betrayal happens, it rarely stays private. Family members weigh in. Friends offer advice. Therapists, clergy, and social media voices all seem to have strong opinions about what you should do next. Most of it comes from a place of care. But even well meaning support can quietly make healing more complicated. In this episode, we talk about how outside opinions can create pressure, confusion, and even division between partners. We explore the difference between support that feels validating and support that actually helps healing move forward. You’ll also hear why both betrayed partners and recovering partners need thoughtful, intentional support, and how choosing the wrong voices can unintentionally undermine what you’re trying to rebuild. This conversation is about learning how to love your people while still protecting your process. __________________________________ Download the Free Video Resource: Rekindle Romance After Betrayal Romance doesn’t come back through pressure or pretending everything is fine. It returns when safety is rebuilt slowly and intentionally. When your nervous system begins to calm, connection becomes possible again. This training will help you understand what needs to happen first – so you’re not trying to rebuild intimacy on a broken foundation. Get your copy here. ______________________________ Download the Free Resource: You, Me, Us - A Way Forward After Betrayal When betrayal has shaken your relationship, it can feel impossible to know where to begin. This free 15-minute video and companion worksheet will help you steady yourself, support your partner, and begin caring for the relationship between you. Get your copy here. ______________________________ Join the Courageous Together™ Program Courageous Together™ isn’t just another course, it’s a trauma-informed roadmap that holds both of you in the healing process. If you’ve ever wondered “Where do we even start?” After betrayal, this program gives you the clarity and structure you need. It meets the betrayed partner’s need for safety while guiding the recovering partner toward real accountability, creating a path forward that neither of you has to figure out on your own. Healing from betrayal is overwhelming in isolation, which is why Courageous Together™ brings you expert guidance, practical tools, and a supportive community of couples walking the same road. Inside, you’ll find a step-by-step framework, live support opportunities, and the reassurance that you’re not alone as you rebuild safety, restore trust, and move toward genuine connection. You’ll have access to: A structured healing framework with step-by-step guidanceVideo lessons and worksheets to build safety, accountability, and connectionThe option to join live group circles and support calls with meA private, secure community of others walking the same path Learn more and join us inside Courageous Together ______________________________ Stay Connected WebsiteYouTubeInstagramFacebook If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who might need it. And don’t forget to leave a review! We’d love to hear how this podcast is supporting your healing journey. __________________________________ Watch on YouTube Prefer video? You can watch full episodes of From Crisis to Connection on our YouTube channel __________________________________ About Geoff Steurer I am a licensed marriage and family therapist and Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS) with 25+ years of experience helping individuals and couples heal from the devastation of sexual betrayal and broken trust. I am the founder of the Courageous Together program, co-host of the From Crisis to Connection podcast, and co-author of Love You, Hate the Porn. My work integrates trauma-informed care, attachment theory, and practical tools for creating lasting safety and connection. I’ve been married to my wife, Jody, since 1996 and we are the parents of four children. About Jody Steurer Jody is the co-host of the From Crisis to Connection podcast, where she brings her thoughtful, common-sense perspective to conversations about healing, trust, and connection. She earned her bachelor’s degree in psychology from Brigham Young University and is an ACA-certified coach. Jody has years of experience in corporate training, small business leadership, and family life, and raising four children (two of them neurodivergent). She loves watercolor painting, landscape design, spending time outdoors, and snow skiing.
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    28 mins
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