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Summary

In this episode, Heather shares the trick she occasionally uses on herself, and with clients, to get a decluttering task started when it really doesn't want to happen. By pairing a dreaded decluttering task with another dreaded task that has a fixed deadline, she's worked out how to make procrastination work in your favour instead of against you.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to Decluttering Strategies

02:48
The Letter of Two Evils Trick

05:52
Setting Up Your Projects for Success

Support the show

If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast.

Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering.

Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

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Summary

Have you ever stood in a room, able to see exactly what needs to happen, but nothing will move because one thing is waiting on another thing, which is waiting on another thing?

That is the bottleneck, and in this episode we're sorting it out.

I walk you through the placeholder method: a simple, slightly-messy-in-the-short-term approach that gets everything moving again, even when the thing you're waiting for hasn't arrived yet. We use the sideboard example, but this applies everywhere in your home, and once you see it, you will not be able to unsee it.

We also talk about why the placeholder does something that waiting never can: it gives you real information. About volume, about what you actually use, about whether the storage solution you've been dreaming of is really going to do what you think it will.

Spoiler: sometimes it is. Sometimes it absolutely isn't. Either way, you'll know.

In this episode:

• What the bottleneck actually is and why ND brains are especially prone to it
• The placeholder method explained, and what to use if you don't have the real thing yet
• Why messy short term is absolutely worth it for movement long term
• How placeholders tell you the volume of what you're working with before you spend a penny on furniture
• Test-driving a rehome before you commit to it
• Ditching the rose-tinted glasses on storage solutions that haven't arrived yet
• Where else this method works beyond the living room sideboard

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to the Waiting Game

02:50
Understanding the Bottleneck Effect

05:46
The Placeholder Method Explained

08:51
Testing the Placeholder: Real Feedback

11:30
Applying the Placeholder Method in Various Spaces

14:37
Encouragement and Community Engagement

Come and tell me where your bottleneck is. I genuinely want to know. Find me on Instagram or come into the Untangled Life community and let's talk about it.

Resources

• DeclutterCon

Support the show

If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast.

Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering.

Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

Follow me on Facebook

Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

Follow me on instagram

Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

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Summary

When did you last tell someone in real life what your home actually looks like? Not a partner, not someone you live with. A friend. A colleague. Someone you chose to tell? For most of us, the honest answer is never.

In this episode Heather gets personal about the thing that makes decluttering so much harder than it needs to be. Not the stuff itself, but the secrecy, the shame, and the exhaustion of carrying it alone. She talks about what she has witnessed happen in rooms full of people who finally found others who get it, the friendships that have formed, the homes that have changed, and why shame cannot survive in community.

This is also the episode where Heather shares why DeclutterCon exists, and it is not because the world needed another event.

In this episode:

• Why so many people have never once spoken out loud about the reality of their home
• The connection between isolation, shame, and being stuck
• What actually happens when people stop doing this alone
• Real outcomes from Heather's in-person Untangled events
• Why community is the shift that changes everything

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Struggles of Clutter
02:40 The Emotional Toll of Clutter and Isolation
05:55 The Power of Community and Shared Experiences
08:39 Creating Safe Spaces for Connection
11:27 The Vision Behind DeclutterCon
14:11 Invitation to Join the Untangled Community

Links:

• Book your DeclutterCon ticket
• Join the Untangled Life membership waitlist
• Find Heather on Instagram: @untangledbytingle
• Website: DeclutterCon

Support the show

If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast.

Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering.

Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

Follow me on Facebook

Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

Follow me on instagram

Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.