• Ep. 388: Injury and the Stockdale Paradox, feat. Alex Sterner
    Apr 27 2026

    This week, we're joined by Alex Sterner! Alex is a black belt and the owner of Electrum Performance in San Diego, where he coaches strength and conditioning for jiu-jitsu and combat sports athletes. In this episode, Alex breaks down the psychology of injury rehab and the Stockdale Paradox: the marriage of optimism about recovery with brutal acceptance of where you actually are right now. Topics include: pain as a feature, the staircase model of rehab, healing it like you hurt it, short term versus long term risk, and a sample weight room program for jiu-jitsu.

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    https://instagram.com/alex.sterner

    Follow Electrum Performance on Instagram:
    https://instagram.com/electrum_performance

    Train with Alex on YouTube:
    https://youtube.com/@electrumperformance


    Mental models discussed in this episode:

    • Visualization
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/visualization

    • Mindfulness
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/mindfulness

    • Growth from Discomfort
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/growth-from-discomfort

    • Loss Aversion
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/loss-aversion

    • Compounding
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/compounding

    • Timeframe Paradox
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/timeframe-paradox

    • Silver Bullet Fallacy
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/silver-bullet-fallacy

    • Prioritize Longevity
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/prioritize-longevity


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  • Mini Ep. 103: Cracking the Whip
    Apr 23 2026

    In this mini-episode, we discuss "cracking the whip:" an external cue for better understanding the relationship between tension and slack in jiu-jitsu.

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  • Ep. 387: Trips & Foot Sweeps, feat. Isa Friedlander & Chris Round
    Apr 20 2026

    This week, we've got a panel! Chris Round is the head judo instructor at High Noon in Alexandria, Virginia, and a judo and BJJ black belt who coaches athletes on the IJF tour. Isa Friedlander is a former Team USA judoka, a brown belt at Unity, and coaches judo at The Dojo in Bushwick and at Unity in Manhattan. In this episode, Chris and Isa break down foot sweeps and trips for grapplers, tied to their new instructional with MASTERs. Topics include: timing vs. structural setups, shape making, the role of the uke, variable drilling, and play.

    Follow Isa on Instagram:
    https://instagram.com/isa100kg

    Follow Chris on Instagram:
    https://instagram.com/chris__circle

    Train with Chris at High Noon Judo in Alexandria, VA:
    https://instagram.com/highnoonjudo

    Learn more about MASTERs (Martial Arts for Social Transformation, Equity and Rights):
    https://martialartsforsocialgood.org

    Follow MASTERs on Instagram:
    https://instagram.com/masterssocialgood

    Get Chris and Isa's foot sweeps and trips instructional:
    https://martialartsforsocialgood.org/store


    Mental models discussed in this episode:

    • Kuzushi
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/kuzushi

    • Predictable Responses
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/predictable-responses

    • Perception-Action Coupling
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/perception-action-coupling

    • Staying Loose
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/staying-loose

    • Psychological Safety
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/psychological-safety

    • Constraints-Led Approach
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/constraints-led-approach

    • Ecological Dynamics
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/ecological-dynamics

    • Curse of Knowledge
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/curse-of-knowledge

    • Keep It Playful
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/keep-it-playful

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    57 mins
  • Mini Ep. 102: Constant and Variable Tension
    Apr 16 2026

    In this mini-episode, we explain constant and variable tension, and the pros and cons of each in jiu-jitsu.

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    7 mins
  • Ep. 386: Don't Make Them Feel Stupid, feat. Heather Morgan
    Apr 13 2026

    This week, we're joined by Heather Morgan! Heather is a jiu-jitsu black belt, competitor-turned-coach, and content creator based in San Diego who teaches in person at the Collective in Ocean Beach and online to students worldwide. In this episode, Heather shares how she coaches students to find their own game rather than copying hers, and why making people feel capable is the real job of a teacher. Topics include: developing individual jiu-jitsu style, psychological safety in the training room, the gap between being good at jiu-jitsu and being a good coach, gamification and constraint-led training, and coaching hobbyist students.

    Follow Heather on Instagram:
    https://instagram.com/heather_morganbjj

    Watch Heather on YouTube:
    https://www.youtube.com/@Heather_MorganBJJ


    Mental models discussed in this episode:

    • Psychological Safety
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/psychological-safety

    • Curse of Knowledge
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/curse-of-knowledge

    • Constraints-Led Approach
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/constraints-led-approach

    • Gamification
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/gamification

    • Ecological Dynamics
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/ecological-dynamics

    • Keep It Playful
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/keep-it-playful


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    56 mins
  • Mini Ep. 101: Open Knowledge
    Apr 9 2026

    In this mini-episode, we explain the concept of open knowledge and when information should be kept secret, charged for, or shared freely.

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    8 mins
  • Ep. 385: Jiu-Jitsu "Third Places," feat. Justin Relph
    Apr 6 2026

    This week, we're joined by Justin Relph! Justin is a self-described die-hard hobbyist, event marketer, and the black belt coach behind Jiu Jitsu Invermere, a not-for-profit gym in the mountains of British Columbia. In this episode, Justin shares his experience building community through jiu-jitsu in a small resort town, and we revisit the concept of third places: the social spaces beyond home and work that so many of us are missing. Topics include: the decline of third places in modern life, how to build gym culture around community rather than competition, bringing jiu-jitsu to where people are, and the power of unstructured social time after training.

    Follow Jiu Jitsu Invermere on Instagram:
    https://instagram.com/jiujitsuinvermere

    Train with Justin at Jiu Jitsu Invermere in Invermere, BC:
    https://invybjj.ca


    Mental models discussed in this episode:

    • Third Places
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/third-places

    • Growth from Discomfort
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/growth-from-discomfort

    • Ecological Dynamics
      https://bjjmentalmodels.com/ecological-dynamics


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    Music by Enterprize:
    https://enterprize.bandcamp.com


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    Not Yet Known
  • Mini Ep. 100: The Golden Rule
    Apr 2 2026

    In our 100th mini-episode, we explain the golden rule, also known as the ethic of reciprocity or the "do unto others" principle. In our opinion, despite not being explicitly about grappling, the golden rule is the most important mental model for jiu-jitsu.

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    8 mins